When you compare how bad it is in America to how bad people have it in 3rd world nations, we're really a bunch of pussies.
Very true. I had, in the Director's Cut of my post here, a statement to the degree that if anyone's freedom of speech or freedom to listen were being infringed upon, we wouldn't be
having this conversation. There are
many countries in the world where our doors would be kicked in for even reading this. In Saudi Arabia last year, a man was sentenced to 3 years in prison and 450 lashes simply for being homosexual; very luckily dodging the death penalty, which is not a rare punishment for this "crime". You can also get thrown in jail there for performing magic... so yeah, perspective is important.
Officially sanctioned censorship (the FCC, notably) never really happened until the whole
FCC vs Pacifica case in 1978 - a case regarding George Carlin's
Filthy Words monologue on the radio. This is not to say independent censorship didn't happen before this... but there was no governmental action taken to restrict broadcast before this, it was all choice of the broadcast companies. The Pryor/Chase skit in '75 was a great example of two world-class comedians at the top of their game pushing the limits of what is acceptable and making it work: they put their careers on the line and lucked out that they were talented enough to pull it off. In stark contrast to this, lest we forget Michael Richards' stand-up "incident"... Janet Jackson's "wardrobe malfunction"... not performed in quite as good taste or as revered as first-season SNL.
Censorship in entertainment started from performers pushing boundaries in venues that were deemed socially inappropriate (the Carlin broadcast was live on an
afternoon). After this, lines had to be drawn since there was a public outcry. The rest is history. Let's not forget the Gore crusade against music that tried to bleach not just specific artists, labeling them as "pornographers" and "polluting the youth", but entire genres. They're the reason we still have those little "Parental Warning" stickers on our CDs... not that people buy CDs anymore...
You can get away with a
lot in syndicated media now: notably South Park pushed back limitations on "shit" and "bitch"; I'm not a huge fan since I think they do it just to flaunt that they
can and I don't really find that amusing, but I admire that they have the confidence to push the limits and still hold a narrative.
It's kinda funny how before, being controversial was a risk that
established artists/performers were taking - now, for a
lot of people, it's a desperation ploy to get discovered.
And the result are people that believe that they deserve everything, that their opinions and desires matter more than anyone else's and that they can never be wrong.
It's not just parents, it's absolutely social media. 'Likes', 'Favorites', 'Upvotes', 'Thumbs Up', 'Achievements', you name it. People are being patted on the back every fucking second. With things like the Apple Watch being incorporated into peoples' lives, don't be surprised if you get a notification "Achievement Unlocked! First Shit Of The Day! You earned 300 Apple Points that are redeemable for absolutely nothing and have absolutely no significance or value whatsoever except to be used to brag about how much better you are than your friends! Yay, you did it, you're special!"
It's an amazingly effective psychological tool - I use it to combat the low-motivation that comes from depression and recommend it to friends: turning something useless but effective into something productive. Give yourself tangible rewards for doing something good and accomplishing actual things: exercise, eating healthy, cleaning, time for hobbies, etc.
It's a damn shame it has been used to make people feel like they're celebrities or something, but it really comes down to personal perception and delusion. The difference between saying something that 30 people "agree" with and saying something that no one "agrees" with can be a massively crushing blow to some people, some would even consider it insulting. In the end, it's all a search for affirmation and attention and the "points" mean absolutely nothing. (No offense Amber, I do agree that they make people feel warm and fuzzy and that's not at all a bad thing!) It comes down to use and abuse of the system there, that's user responsibility. Taking feedback constructively or taking it personally is an optional choice. Too many people use it as a first line of response on how to form and shape their behaviors; teens and youth can be much more impressionable in that regard. Post something on Reddit using the "n" word as a slur and get 2500+ upvotes? Talk about positive reinforcement - that kid feels like a fucking deity.