Spidey Senses

[Bandog]

A question mostly for the models but anyone please chime in with your opinions.

I have a fave model on MFC, in fact, I don't go into other rooms now because I like the vibe in her room. Anyway, the other day she came on and we were all hanging and chatting when a guy new to the room comes in and within 5 minutes had cute little nicknames for her and seemed overly friendly(Stuff like "my cute little blah blah and my beautiful sweet blah blah"). He dropped a few hundred tokens (apart from her regs, this is unheard of) and then asked her State.

She replied and then he started asking probing questions about locations and landmarks in the State saying he was in the next state over. This set my spidey senses tingling as within 15 minutes, he was being overly friendly (maybe it's just me, but it takes me longer than 5 minutes to be making up nicknames like I've known someone for months/years) and probing for location.

Then he asked how much for friends-list and paid it and the two started PM;'ing (cool, the more she makes, the better, she deserves it) but he stopped talking in the room for a long time and just talked in PM. Then he started asking, do you have a date raffle where members can meet you (Spidey senses started tingling again) and saying, he would buy all the tickets just to meet her and he was laying on very thick.

I'm happy for her as she made a shit load of tokens from him but there was something about him that made me worried. I have never seen anyone be that friendly and probing within being in a room for less than 10 minutes. I talk with the model on social media and e-mail and we have become friends.

So after a long story I guess I'm asking am I right to have reservations about this guy and would any of the models on here be hesitant if someone came in and immediately laid it on extra thick and asking personal location questions as well as asking about a date raffle?

 

[CharlotteLace]

Any seasoned model would know what's up, pretty much within the first 5-10 minutes. A newer model might be a bit more naive, but will figure it out pretty quickly anyway. If she's a new model, maybe mention she'd be wise to be cautious, but I'd drop it after that. As long as she doesn't give out personal info or actually meet the guy, I don't see the problem. Hell, my best day ever on MFC was in part due to a large contributor who I had never spoken to before. Once he found out I wouldn't give out my phone number (much less, meet), he bailed and hasn't spoken to me since. So as long as she stands her ground and doesn't trust blindly, I wouldn't worry too much.

 

[Bandog]

Any seasoned model would know what's up, pretty much within the first 5-10 minutes. A newer model might be a bit more naive, but will figure it out pretty quickly anyway. If she's a new model, maybe mention she'd be wise to be cautious, but I'd drop it after that. As long as she doesn't give out personal info or actually meet the guy, I don't see the problem. Hell, my best day ever on MFC was in part due to a large contributor who I had never spoken to before. Once he found out I wouldn't give out my phone number (much less, meet), he bailed and hasn't spoken to me since. So as long as she stands her ground and doesn't trust blindly, I wouldn't worry too much.

Thank you for the reply, she is a seasoned model and I think this had more to do with me, I just didn't trust the guy.

 

[Mira_xo]

It's her relationship with him to do with how she chooses and you honestly sound like you're getting "jealous member syndrome." Cam girls don't need you to protect them from other people. Very few things bother me more than when one of my members PMs me about how much they hate another member.

It's very hard to be a model and deal with having to reject customers wishes, but if she isn't comfortable with meeting up, then rest assured, she won't do it. If she does meet up with him, that is 100% her choice and she will likely not care that you have a negative feeling toward him. Just my two cents.

 

[FluffyGalore]

I think it would probably be best if you don't say anything to the model, purely because she's not new and is more than capable of dealing with people like this. Plus you don't know what he was actually saying in pm they could have been chatting about anything. I wouldn't say it's unusual for some guys to come in and act like that off the bat, I have had many guys over the years behave like this over the years and I deal with it as do we all. I know your saying that you want to say to her just to kinda give a heads up, however I personally would take it as a slightly jealous member. I'm not saying you are just that that is how I would take it. And you would earn a lovely big eye roll for your efforts. I would leave her to get on with it and I'm sure he will move on if meeting with her is his only interest, they always do. Just go into your models room enjoy yourself and chill. If she needs any advice I'm sure she will ask you for it. Hope it all goes well.

 

[DFT]

Long before she became a camgirl she was a girl. Your spidey sense is nothing compared to what women have carefully honed over a lifetime.

Chances are she sent him off looking for landmarks around a place they had Brownie Camp when she was 8.

 

[FluffyGalore]

Long before she became a camgirl she was a girl. Your spidey sense is nothing compared to what women have carefully honed over a lifetime.

Chances are she sent him off looking for landmarks around a place they had Brownie Camp when she was 8.

Just too funny are very probable lol