Some men like to chat with you but never join your room

[pugpug]

How do you think ? Yes they are have tipped you before but it was long month ago They are like to chat with Me on another program not on My CB room I think just 1 reason they don't want to tip me
How do you think ?

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Think is bad deal.

 

[Phoenix4987]

We teach people how to treat us. If you let your clients eat up a lot of free time offline without any tips, then you show them it's okay for this to happen. If perhaps you curve your chatting offline until they begin to tip again, you might be able to teach that old dog a new trick. It's called, "your attention ain't free."

 

[Ambers Troll]

If I am in a models public room as a member I tip or intend to....exceptions to this are rare. I do sometimes guest if I don't feel the urge to spend.

PM chat is a different matter I sometimes feel the urge to say hi to a model/ catch up with how they are doing. Most of the time the model will catch up with me before I get the chance though. I tend to be less sure on my spending when in PM chat, but feel more secure in the company I keep, so will more likely spend on that model.
Freeloading or spending as a result of private message interaction is simply a different game. It can be more rewarding, but you can also be used by it.

 

[a_haze420]

If they take up to much off your off cam time maybe try to stop chatting with him as much!

 

[Lucid1]

When I'm using MFC I use PM chat exclusively, but only after I have made a connection to the model and showed her that I am interested enough to tip considerably in public chat. However, I usually wind up tipping more when in PM chat, as I know that this is her job and her time is not free. I also ask for permission to add her to my friends list. I rarely use 3rd party programs like Skype, and I've never used Twitter, FB, Snapchat or any of the social media type of sites. The way I look at it, if a model is not online on the site where I met her, I'm inclined to think I should not, or that they do not want to be bothered otherwise. However, I think the caveat to all of this is that if a model asks for my Skype and reciprocates with her contact information, then I am of the mindset that she wants me to contact her using that medium. But I don't abuse the privilege, and will only ever use Skype to find out when she might be online next, and if she doesn't reply, I assume she isn't online or doesn't want to be bothered and will not send a followup query. I think the responsibility falls on the model here with how she manages her time and contacts.

 

[snowwolf87]

I also ask for permission to add her to my friends list.

Umm... Adding her to your friends list doesn't need her permission. All that does is make it easier to find her and let you have more control over whether she can PM you or not. It has no effect on her.

 

[Krystal Lazuli]

I'll chat em up a lot - in my opinion a customer may not be paying just because they actually can't at the moment but may come back later and spend it. So I make sure to even make time to answer and chat with everyone.

As soon as they start making demands with no tip I boot 'em though. I'm nice but not a pushover.

 

[Lucid1]

I realize that I don't need her permission to add a model to my friends list, but I do think it sends a message that I am interested in her when I ask.

 

[SaffronBurke]

Umm... Adding her to your friends list doesn't need her permission. All that does is make it easier to find her and let you have more control over whether she can PM you or not. It has no effect on her.

A lot of models feel like it's a silly question to ask because of this. Who's going to say, "no, don't click a button that brings me to the top of the model list for you", after all?

 

[justjoinedtopost]

I realize that I don't need her permission to add a model to my friends list, but I do think it sends a message that I am interested in her when I ask.

That could send the wrong message.

I used to do something similar, would ask for permission to jerk off. Thought they would be terribly flattered. Apparently not.

 

[RogueWarrior]

When I'm using MFC I use PM chat exclusively.

Oh, you're that member. (Yes, this is without context of the entire post so don't take it personally, I'm only using it to make a point)

So many times while I'm in a room and the model is typing away, obviously to PM because it's not showing up in public, I'll just say "I'm just here for the typing skills."