Questions for camgirls: Liveshows and Escorting Proposals

[vincenzx]

Hello there,

my name is Vincenzo and i am using xxx webcam sites since long time.
Sometimes it happened to feel something "more deep" for the camgirls that i was interacting with and i needed to feel their body for real.
I wanted to touch them having real sex with them or let say just to realize some fetish fantasies.

Clearly this did not happened immediately but after some days or weeks of chatting with them.
I wanted to meet these girls but they did not accept it telling they were not doing real dates etc. etc.

So now basically i am a little scared that it can happen again and i am using these sites a lot less now and try to avoid any true human connection with the models.
I just use them sometimes to masturbate.

I would like to make a sort of survery for camgirls.

How many of you would accept escorting with a client of the cam site and what conditions would be required for this to happen?
I mean: what would be important for you to accept such proposals? How much money he can pay? Your personal safety? Or whatelse?
Let say that i am a rich person and basically i can pay you 3k + travel costs for a weekend without you just to meet you in real life.
Or if we are close enough let say 500eur per hour.
Would you accept it and if you would... is there any specific requirement that you would ask before to accept an offer like this?

Thanx a lot for your help

 

[Fatquack]

If escorting is legal where you live, why don't you just go to an escort site?

 

[AudriTwo]

camsites are not escort sites.

there are strict rules models and sites need to follow now if they want to operate in the US. check out fosta/sesta. we have strict rules we need to follow, that includes using the site to "meet up." if you want a camming/escort site check out adultwork.com. they are uk based.

for legality reasons, i advise models not to answer ops questions.

 

[vincenzx]

If escorting is legal where you live, why don't you just go to an escort site?

yes it is.

 

[vincenzx]

camsites are not escort sites.

there are strict rules models and sites need to follow now if they want to operate in the US. check out fosta/sesta. we have strict rules we need to follow, that includes using the site to "meet up." if you want a camming/escort site check out adultwork.com. they are uk based.

for legality reasons, i advise models not to answer ops questions.

ok thanx for the infos but i do not think all the camgirls of the world are from usa!

 

[AudriTwo]

ok thanx for the infos but i do not think all the camgirls of the world are from usa!

if they are working a site that wants to accept US clientele, no escorting and that includes meetups, because the site will be held accountable for enabling prostitution and will get shut down by the US DOJ. even if you are from a different country. you risk them getting banned if you try pushing escorting. which is hella selfish.

so dont. go to adultwork.com for camming/escorting needs.

on my site (streamate) every model no matter what country you are from has to verify before streaming. like i said, any site that wants to wants to operate and accept US models and clients need to adhere.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

If escorting is legal where you live, why don't you just go to an escort site?

This. If it is legal in your country/region go to those sites. Or, just find a brothel and make a visit.

though, it sounds like you have problems understanding that cam sites in general are not for hookups. Notsaying all, as @AudriTwo mentioned one that might fit your needs.
Hell, I’m sure there a local forum, or Reddit sub for your area where you can find a hookup

 

[Danigirl]

Ugh I hate hate hate when people assume models are fine meeting up for whatever amount of money and keep pestering. You are so not worth going against ToS which is on all the cam sites that models will not meet. I'm not losing a huge source of income where one shitty weekend would be the same I make working part time that week on cam. You are so not worth risking legal action. You are so not worth any type of safety risk that a model unfamiliar with full service sex work would navigate. You are so not worth the frustration it is to deal with PMs and emails asking for what you cannot get on cam sites. Stop. Fuck off. Go to where what you want is actually offered. Just like cam sites aren't dating sites, they are not fucking brothel sites either.

This isn't shitting on full service sex workers either. Legal ramifications are a huge deal for those where it isn't permitted. Stick to masturbation over cam models like you're supposed to.

 

[PandoraUnchained]

I'm always speechless with this kind of members.

Do you offer to strippers sex for money when you visit a striptease club? (Probably not, cause you're heading for a short and disagreeable private show with bouncers)

ok thanx for the infos but i do not think all the camgirls of the world are from usa!

All of the us sites are in usa (meh), and all eurosites i know are in countries that may allow prostitution but forbid procuring. You're under the site rules, not your/model country of residence one.

 

[CheeseMoon]

It's a bit surprising that someone can be a regular on camsites for a long time and still not get the "no meetups" thing. It's clearly written in most bios pages and often mentioned in public chats. Even as a user I've seen way too many grey (and very rich, apparently) users jonesing for camgirl dates and whatnot. It's just creepy noise.

 

[Carmita Bonita]

"Let say that i am a rich person and basically i can pay you 3k + travel costs for a weekend without you just to meet you in real life.
Would you accept it and if you would... is there any specific requirement that you would ask before to accept an offer like this? "

Statements like this is a huge red flag to me because it's gross to throw out an exorbitant amount of money to someone who isn't offering such a service/isn't legally able to as sort of a carrot dangling/dancing monkey type of thing. It's incredibly manipulative and makes me uncomfortable. I have people repeatedly ask me "would you meet for 500$$....$1000" going up and up in $$ as I say no.

 

[pupelovedance]

My country is well known for sex tourism, I could make much more money beeing prostitute, but I choose to be a camgirl.
When I say where I am comming from, It is often that they ask me if we can meet when they will visit my country, and it is really annoying to say all the time that I am not a prostitute.
Once in PM someone insisted to know how much if we meet, and just because I was tired, I told him 5000$, too much for you.
The day after, I was banned from CB because the man reported me for dating, it took me 4 days to be unbanned after explained support what happened.
Now when someone insists on that, I block him directly, I do not care of people like that.

 

[PandoraUnchained]

That's just the same mechanic as Nigerian letters or fake lotteria stuff. YOU HAVE WON 10000000000000000000000$ (just send us 100$ to take them) Aha.

If someone say that he is ready to pay several time the worth of top-escorts, this is obviously a fake.

 

[NotYou]

"Let say that i am a rich person and basically i can pay you 3k + travel costs for a weekend without you just to meet you in real life.
Would you accept it and if you would... is there any specific requirement that you would ask before to accept an offer like this? "

Statements like this is a huge red flag to me because it's gross to throw out an exorbitant amount of money to someone who isn't offering such a service/isn't legally able to as sort of a carrot dangling/dancing monkey type of thing. It's incredibly manipulative and makes me uncomfortable. I have people repeatedly ask me "would you meet for 500$$....$1000" going up and up in $$ as I say no.

This just reminds me of this one grey guy I constantly see on CB going from model to model saying how they are the most beautiful they have ever seen and would they "meet for $800 - PM me bb".
The thing about camsites, they are a nice and SAFE environment, take that environment away and start meeting with guys, you're going to end up having something terrible happen. Plus a lot of women don't want to be touching another man, no matter how ugly or attractive you are, old or young etc. It's not about just fucking and money.

But yes, do as suggested above: go find an escort site, there must be plenty out there.

 

[AmberCutie]

ok thanx for the infos but i do not think all the camgirls of the world are from usa!

Seeing as how my forum is based in the USA and it almost sounds like you're looking to hire someone, I'll be locking this thread.