Become a model, and the model section can definitely help you out with success. ------->
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/how-to-get-verified-cam-girl-status.1696/
As for pricing... based on personal experience some of your prices are a little below average, some are above average.
My suggestions would be...
Hand spank: Try 3 spanks for 20 tokens.
Paddle spank: Try 3 spanks for 30-40 tokens.
Song request: I've never done this, but I think 50-100 would be reasonable. Most girls I've seen do 100.
Feet: Depends on if you have socks, or thigh highs on. Normal feet, 20 is ok. Socks, 20 might still be ok. But if you were wearing thigh highs I always priced it 60-80 tokens.
Booty shake: I would ask 40 for that.
Pinch your nipples: I would ask like 40 or so for that. (I've never done it really)
I wouldn't have cat ears on the tip menu, but it could be a goal. Or a theme for a show.
Boob massage: I feel like this is something more worthy of say 100 to 200 tokens because you are not only showing your boobs but you're doing an action. But it depends on how long the massage is... like 5 minutes?
Rikka dance: I'm not sure what that is, but I'd say a dance is worth more like 100 tokens.
Flash: It depends. Boobs I'd put 40, butt I'd put 35, and vag I'd put more like 60. Or you could do all of them the same. If so then 40 is ok.
I am not sure about muting???
I'm not sure about a deposit for a private. I've only seen really high top models do that.
As for the rest of the list from there it seems pretty reasonable.
Of course, these are what I would put myself in my experience and observation from other models. You price what you think you are worth, but I personally think some of your tip menu is worth more than you price it. You're fucking cute as hell btw, don't undersell yourself.