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A lot of models, sadly, fake. Sure, when you've came 5 times you can't cum again (sometimes,) but you still want to touch yourself. Hell it feels really good. When I can't cum, I keep trying. Fuck I'll masturbate for an hour before I'll give up. However, if I still can't cum, I've always just said that my clunt couldn't squeeze out another orgasm and just finish my group like I normally do (a bit of after sex cuddle chat/giggles :) )

Some models though can't cum as easily as others. Sometimes you're nervous. Sometimes the guy you're in private with just isn't worth cumming for (haha, I wish girls didn't feel pressured to go private with a guy like that.) Hell, I'm sure sometimes your body just doesn't want to cum or you're stressed and you can't relax as much as you want to. It happens.


If you were watching a girl like this, would you care if she faked it? How would you feel about it? Can you tell if she's faking?

When I was a very new model, I thought guys expected me to cum before their 200 tokens were out. Fuck that. I had issues orgasming and it took me a long time to "learn" how to cum. Now I normally never have any problems, but it's true that every girl does sometimes.

Do you think a private/group is any worse if the girl doesn't cum?

What would you do if you found out the girl admitted to faking? Would you still come to her room? Would you ever go group/private with her if she agreed to stop faking? Would you try to help her? Would you be hurt?



Do you think exaggerating an orgasm (something even I do, I enjoy it myself when I moan louder on purpose just so everyone can tell how hard I'm cumming, it's hot to let them know for me) is anything like faking?



Do you have any other insight on this topic?
 
Now, what I'm about to say won't be totally fair because I'm basing this off of watching one model (Amber) all the time. I know that each woman is different. But to me, if I see a model cum and then get right up and start acting normal and like nothing just happened; I'm more inclined to think that she faked it.

A good orgasm should be one that takes a minute or two to recover from, not 5 seconds, IMO.
 
I would rather have a model be honest and upfront about her cumming ability. If it takes her a while, or she needs more recuperation time from her last show, it's all good providing she's honest about it.

How can you not feel ripped off it's fake? Fake shows are free all over the interwebz. Although some models are better than others at feigning a good orgasm, it's not all that difficult for the experienced person to distinguish whether it was genuine or not.

Models who pretend to be totally into it...then pop up and converse immediately like they were just doing a menial task are not fooling anybody.
 
I'd rather know a woman is actually enjoying whatever debauched sexual activity she's performing. I can't really get off to "mainstream" porn any more, it usually has to be an amateur video someone shot of themselves fucking/getting off/other and REALLY enjoying themselves.

The same is true for sex. I'm of the school of thought that if the female you're with isn't genuinely enjoying herself, you're doing it wrong and there's not much point in proceeding.
 
Enon said:
I'd rather know a woman is actually enjoying whatever debauched sexual activity she's performing...
... I'm of the school of thought that if the female you're with isn't genuinely enjoying herself, you're doing it wrong and there's not much point in proceeding.

This!!

Nothing is more fun (at least on MFC) knowing she is enjoying herself, and if it takes her a while so be it! I've enjoyed many a 30+ min group show.
 
It seems to me that men think if a girl isn't cumming, she isn't enjoying herself.

At the same time, if she is faking, it must be because she doesn't like what she's doing.

Did you know Marilyn Monroe, for all her sex-obsession, was said to admitted to never having an orgasm?

Not sure what this has to do with faking, I just see lots of guys thinking faking orgasm means faking pleasure, and that may not be the case. Lots of girls can feel good and not cum...curse or blessing, it's the truth camgirls are EXPECTED to cum especially when a private show has been bought.
 
It's an entertainment industry, you have to expect some amount of "faking" it. It's the over the top faking that's bad. The frozen milk and whatever.
 
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pyrite1965 said:
Enon said:
I'd rather know a woman is actually enjoying whatever debauched sexual activity she's performing...
... I'm of the school of thought that if the female you're with isn't genuinely enjoying herself, you're doing it wrong and there's not much point in proceeding.

This!!

Nothing is more fun (at least on MFC) knowing she is enjoying herself, and if it takes her a while so be it! I've enjoyed many a 30+ min group show.

I'm mostly with this here. When I take a model private, 90% of the time I'm going to ask her to do what ever sounds good to her. I'm not terribly picky but I do want to see genuine enjoyment. I'd prefer if she orgasms but as long as she's enjoying herself, I typically like what I see.

If a model doesn't feel up to a show, I would prefer to be told so or asked to wait till she feels more inclined, that's for sure. If a girl knows she can orgasm but that it may take a while, I'd appreciate knowing that so that I can be sure I have enough tokens.

I don't have a problem with exaggeration because sometimes by doing a bit of exaggerating it can actually increase the "in the moment" feeling of it all. I don't really like the idea of straight up faking because a lot of the draw for me is the idea of watching a woman who is actually enjoying herself whether it be group or private and once you fake on the orgasm it's hard to trust that the whole thing wasn't faked.
 
Keithy said:
It's an entertainment industry, you have to expect some amount of "faking" it. It's the over the top faking that's bad. The frozen milk and whatever.

Wut? :eek:
 
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i in general dont fake.. and if im using my hitachi i dont need to lol
however there are times when some guy takes me to a short private and then demands i cum where i will pull out my acting skills otherwise i dont owe anyone an orgasm. sometimes it can be hard for me to cum but im still enjoying myself so i dont feel the need to pretend i had an orgasm. also i recover damn quickly on mfc and in real life.. usually i jump up all giggly.
 
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AmberCutie said:
Keithy said:
It's an entertainment industry, you have to expect some amount of "faking" it. It's the over the top faking that's bad. The frozen milk and whatever.

Wut? :eek:

You take frozen milk and put it in the vagina and then bang the shit outta yourself. Then all this white frothy liquid comes out while you scream "I'm cumming bee bee"
 
Models are baffled when I take them private for a one on one conversation rather than a crazy sexual fantasy... I honestly dont care to see the girls cum or not, I doubt I'd ever take a model private to watch her cum. Of course I'd rather her enjoy herself though, so really cumming would be a plus for her.


This meaning of this post is lost to me as well, if you have trouble understanding what I meant to say, dont worry. I have trouble understanding this one as well.
 
jebbaz said:
Models are baffled when I take them private for a one on one conversation rather than a crazy sexual fantasy... I honestly dont care to see the girls cum or not, I doubt I'd ever take a model private to watch her cum. Of course I'd rather her enjoy herself though, so really cumming would be a plus for her.

Imagine a world where "suck toes plz bb plus anal hard doggy" doesn't make you blink, but "so, i just wanna chill and chat, r u kewl with just talking?" completely bamboozles you!
:)
 
Keithy said:
AmberCutie said:
Keithy said:
It's an entertainment industry, you have to expect some amount of "faking" it. It's the over the top faking that's bad. The frozen milk and whatever.

Wut? :eek:

You take frozen milk and put it in the vagina and then bang the shit outta yourself. Then all this white frothy liquid comes out while you scream "I'm cumming bee bee"

Thats icky. :shock:
 
There seems to be a widely shared method of fake cumming by a good portion of the Latin persuasion mfc community. They diddle for a while, then zoom in with a couple fingers inside, but only show you the back of their hand. Then you see them slightly tilt their hand outwards towards the cam a little while they squirt or squeeze something into their vagoo. Then they angle their hand back, diddle a little faster and scream a little louder for a second or two and voilà...they cum some gooey vagoo sauce.
 
Bocefish said:
There seems to be a widely shared method of fake cumming by a good portion of the Latin persuasion mfc community. They diddle for a while, then zoom in with a couple fingers inside, but only show you the back of their hand. Then you see them slightly tilt their hand outwards towards the cam a little while they squirt or squeeze something into their vagoo. Then they angle their hand back, diddle a little faster and scream a little louder for a second or two and voilà...they cum some gooey vagoo sauce.
Ew. That's taking it tooo far. Although I saw a girl who said she couldn't squirt immediately have a guy promise her 1,000 tokens for every inch she squirted. wtf? No wonder they use frozen milk!

Anyway I wish all members were like you guys! I watched a poor girl last night being begged not to use her rabbit and to use this effing huge dildo...no matter how many times she said the rabbit felt good and would make her cum, they insisted. So she switched between them. They told her to cum with the dildo, she said she couldn't, and they said "Yeah you can just concentrate" Concentrate?wtf. She said she CAN'T. The amount of people telling her to 'cum already people are waiting' and others saying 'hold it back take the toy out' was enough for me to both sympathize and REALLY respect the girl. She handled it REALLY effing well. And no, she didn't fake it at the end. (Overexaggerated because all the guys wanted her to squirt and she couldn't, yeah. If she flips out enough they don't care haha.)

Guess it's the risk you take when you do public penetration shows...
 
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PinUpKittie said:
Bocefish said:
There seems to be a widely shared method of fake cumming by a good portion of the Latin persuasion mfc community. They diddle for a while, then zoom in with a couple fingers inside, but only show you the back of their hand. Then you see them slightly tilt their hand outwards towards the cam a little while they squirt or squeeze something into their vagoo. Then they angle their hand back, diddle a little faster and scream a little louder for a second or two and voilà...they cum some gooey vagoo sauce.
Ew. That's taking it tooo far. Although I saw a girl who said she couldn't squirt immediately have a guy promise her 1,000 tokens for every inch she squirted. wtf? No wonder they use frozen milk!

Anyway I wish all members were like you guys! I watched a poor girl last night being begged not to use her rabbit and to use this effing huge dildo...no matter how many times she said the rabbit felt good and would make her cum, they insisted. So she switched between them. They told her to cum with the dildo, she said she couldn't, and they said "Yeah you can just concentrate" Concentrate?wtf. She said she CAN'T. The amount of people telling her to 'cum already people are waiting' and others saying 'hold it back take the toy out' was enough for me to both sympathize and REALLY respect the girl. She handled it REALLY effing well. And no, she didn't fake it at the end. (Overexaggerated because all the guys wanted her to squirt and she couldn't, yeah. If she flips out enough they don't care haha.)

Guess it's the risk you take when you do public penetration shows...

It's really pathetic when people on the other side of a webcam think they know better than you how to pleasure yourself. FUCKING MORONS.

I imagine that during my anal group show on Thursday that there will be people asking me to cum from sticking things in my ass. REALLY looking forward to that. Oh well, it's in group show, at least they're paying.
 
AlexLady said:
If you were watching a girl like this, would you care if she faked it? How would you feel about it? Can you tell if she's faking?
If I'm already watching a model, for long enough to actually see her orgasm, I'm probably there for other reasons anyway. But that's another topic. Anyway, YES I care to some extent. I'd rather see the real thing as it provides a little insight. Is she quiet, vocal, a trembler, a clencher, etc...? I personally get off on getting my partner off, so it does matter to me. But, can I tell? Sometimes I suppose yes, but if not it's a moot point anyway.

AlexLady said:
Do you think a private/group is any worse if the girl doesn't cum?
No, no difference. I'm not always in group or private for an orgasm, from either side of the cam. Group shows are a tough call. Some of the comments are just as bad as public, so I can understand if the mood is broken. If I am, however, in private and just being a complete lech at the time, then it becomes a bit more important for the real thing. In either case, I'd rather have no orgasm than fabricated.

AlexLady said:
What would you do if you found out the girl admitted to faking? Would you still come to her room? Would you ever go group/private with her if she agreed to stop faking? Would you try to help her? Would you be hurt?
I hang out in model's rooms for their personality, wit, etc... Now, don't get me wrong, I'm certainly not above the physical attraction, or sex appeal, but it doesn't top my list of traits to look for in a woman. That said, No, I would not abandon a room just because of fake orgasms. Depending on the situation, however, I may be disinclined to join a group or private, knowing this. I just don't know if I could get the same enjoyment from it. If asked, of course I would help, but I don't think I would just offer unless I knew her very well. And as far as hurt goes, I'm not her lover, and not emotionally invested, so I'm not sure I could be. Disappointed maybe, if the scenario were dragged on long enough and I thought there was some small connection, but not hurt.

AlexLady said:
Do you think exaggerating an orgasm (something even I do, I enjoy it myself when I moan louder on purpose just so everyone can tell how hard I'm cumming, it's hot to let them know for me) is anything like faking?
Is role-playing fake? I'm inclined to put 'exaggeration' in this category. If it enhances the feeling, or the mood of the room, go for it.
 
AmberCutie said:
It's really pathetic when people on the other side of a webcam think they know better than you how to pleasure yourself. FUCKING MORONS.

I imagine that during my anal group show on Thursday that there will be people asking me to cum from sticking things in my ass. REALLY looking forward to that. Oh well, it's in group show, at least they're paying.

You had me at "anal group show"...

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TwistedPair said:
AlexLady said:
Do you think exaggerating an orgasm (something even I do, I enjoy it myself when I moan louder on purpose just so everyone can tell how hard I'm cumming, it's hot to let them know for me) is anything like faking?
Is role-playing fake? I'm inclined to put 'exaggeration' in this category. If it enhances the feeling, or the mood of the room, go for it.

Wonderful point about the role-playing, actually. And yeah I suppose there are times when I'm masturbating alone that I am completely silent, and I'm just more inclined to be a bit more noisy about it when I have an audience.
 
And yeah I suppose there are times when I'm masturbating alone that I am completely silent, and I'm just more inclined to be a bit more noisy about it when I have an audience.


When I masturbate alone I've found that when I'm more vocal it's a little more fun... holding back and being completely silent when little squeaks come out, doesn't feel as good when I let myself moan :)

Same thing online, letting someone know it feels good to me doesn't mean I'm exaggerating the feeling, it's more like getting that feeling across. And like I said, makes me feel better!
 
In the Damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't category, i take heat for my genuine orgasms lol.

I've had a number of fellows comment that my orgasms are more violent and visceral than hawt!

Thankfully most proper gentleman think that the growling, groaning, drooling, teeth knashing, convulsive expletive filled orgasms are pretty awesome :)
 
QueenMeadow said:
My vajayjay turns bright red when horny... and you can see the muscles moving during O's...... really hard to fake it when your own vagina could tell on you.

Meadow, beautiful Meadow, i LOVE that you legit orgasm , and I bet you also love it when the men we encounter online can SPOT and ACKNOWLEDGE a real orgasm.

I know this post is about whether or not models cum, but the thing that really thrills me about this topic is the flip-side! When a man can encourage, support and then recognize a real orgasm (and a real shared experience!) it's stunningly erotic and wonderful! In between the "hard anal bb cuuuuum" privates and the Simon-sez groups sometimes the planets just align and every thing is right in the world and we girls legitimately CUM, and to be able to share that with another human being (or a few hundred!), and just bask in the awesomeness of our cum-tastic O-tacular sex fest is positively magical.
 
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