Yes, have to admit, I actually frequently like dildo play a lot. But I NEVER like it unless I am 100% in control of speed, size etc myself. If anyone tries to step in on that, it immediately kills any genuine feelings of turned on I had, and it's immediately kind of a shit show at that point. That I'm considering ending. Usually, I'll give a brief explanation of why I'm leaving at that point. Sometimes they can turn it around by acknowledging their mistake, and backing waaay off. However, that rarely happens. Sometimes they drop a huge amount of cash, which is nice, and continue demanding the same. I still leave anyway. That was their choice, I never outright ask for stuff like that.
I love how Amber highlighted that that caters to a certain demographic, because that is soooooooooo true.
And not all of us are OK with that demographic, but some models probably are, so more power to them.