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Ambers Troll said:
What completely confuses you about chat, a fetish, members/ models, chatsites?

Guess mine is the trade in videos. If I wanted porn I just get it anywhere, if I wanted something specific simply asking for it as a pvt show is easier.
Well, a custom video may call for special preparation and props that may not exist in a random private. Also, one assumes that the model does some planning before the execution of a custom job. Kind of like the difference between a live music album and a studio album.
 
Oh I am so glad you made this thread!

Was just thinking today that I do not understand "buying a model shots." The pleasure behind this completely escapes me.

1. How do you know that vodka is really vodka?

2. How can you buy that which has already been bought?

3. Is it really fun to watch a model get drunk?

I am lost :think:
 
Ambers Troll said:
Guess mine is the trade in videos. If I wanted porn I just get it anywhere, if I wanted something specific simply asking for it as a pvt show is easier.
I think the biggest appeal for videos (at least custom ones) is that it's something they can watch by their favorite model when she's not around. Especially if it's custom, there's that thrill of "this is the exact thing I want, with my favorite model, it's all mine and nobody else will see this footage, she's moaning MY name, etc."

I don't understand half the Clips4Sale categories. Headphone fetish, arm holding, asscheek fucking, furries, ironing. I know there's plenty of complex psychological reasons for very specific fetishes, but it amazes me that there's enough people with an arm holding fetish to warrant demand for a distinct category. :dontknow:
 
JimsX said:
Oh I am so glad you made this thread!

Was just thinking today that I do not understand "buying a model shots." The pleasure behind this completely escapes me.

1. How do you know that vodka is really vodka?

2. How can you buy that which has already been bought?

3. Is it really fun to watch a model get drunk?

I am lost :think:

It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.
 
LadyLuna said:
It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Well although I have never done that, I get the concept. I would think that there is an end goal to that. On the screen, there is absolutely no chance of that, so while it may be fun to chat while drinking, I guess I just don't see the thrill.
 
JimsX said:
LadyLuna said:
It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Well although I have never done that, I get the concept. I would think that there is an end goal to that. On the screen, there is absolutely no chance of that, so while it may be fun to chat while drinking, I guess I just don't see the thrill.

I don't go to bars, but I've had friends who did, and they would buy girls drinks just to see what she would do. *shrugs* Also the same concept as getting a friend high to see what they will do.
 
LadyLuna said:
JimsX said:
LadyLuna said:
It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Well although I have never done that, I get the concept. I would think that there is an end goal to that. On the screen, there is absolutely no chance of that, so while it may be fun to chat while drinking, I guess I just don't see the thrill.

I don't go to bars, but I've had friends who did, and they would buy girls drinks just to see what she would do. *shrugs* Also the same concept as getting a friend high to see what they will do.

:think: Okie doke. Not my bag, but if the model earns off it and the dude is happy, all is well in the universe.
 
LadyLuna said:
JimsX said:
Oh I am so glad you made this thread!

Was just thinking today that I do not understand "buying a model shots." The pleasure behind this completely escapes me.

1. How do you know that vodka is really vodka?

2. How can you buy that which has already been bought?

3. Is it really fun to watch a model get drunk?

I am lost :think:

It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Huh. I always found it kind of weird, like when I see guys buying shot after shot after shot it looks like they're trying to get a girl sloppy drunk on purpose. And it comes off kinda creepy :?
 
JimsX said:
LadyLuna said:
It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Well although I have never done that, I get the concept. I would think that there is an end goal to that. On the screen, there is absolutely no chance of that, so while it may be fun to chat while drinking, I guess I just don't see the thrill.

People don't always buy drinks for others with an agenda. Sometimes it's just a respect or appreciation. I've had drinks bought for me by strangers that never approached me IRL and didn't expect me to. In some cultures it's harmless, especially if the person buying the drinks is drinking themselves. "Bad luck to drink alone" kind of mentality.
In camming it can be the same way. I don't do drinks for tips but If I was drinking at home as a member, I could see the appeal of kind of virtually sharing a drink with someone. It's typically a social vice. Or if your model friend seems tight about something and is admittedly looking for an excuse for a drink or three that they might have had anyway maybe slightly encouraging it is harmless as well.

When it's excessive and seems to be an attempt to get someone to act foolish I agree it definitely seems kinda creepy. But that's not necessarily everyone's intentions.

ETA: I always buy drinks or shots for friends... what if your only friends that day are your MFC peeps you know?
 
Jessi said:
LadyLuna said:
JimsX said:
Oh I am so glad you made this thread!

Was just thinking today that I do not understand "buying a model shots." The pleasure behind this completely escapes me.

1. How do you know that vodka is really vodka?

2. How can you buy that which has already been bought?

3. Is it really fun to watch a model get drunk?

I am lost :think:

It's the same concept as buying a girl shots in a bar.

Huh. I always found it kind of weird, like when I see guys buying shot after shot after shot it looks like they're trying to get a girl sloppy drunk on purpose. And it comes off kinda creepy :?
In some cases, yes they are. I'm actually the number one studio in the drinking category on Clips4sale, due to a really popular custom drinking clip in which the guy who ordered it specifically asked me to get as drunk as possible. So, that is a fetish. Just watching girls get as trashed as they possibly can.

I won't pretend to understand the reasoning behind it or anything, but it's a thing. A profitable thing too. :twocents-02cents:
 
JimsX said:
Oh I am so glad you made this thread!

Was just thinking today that I do not understand "buying a model shots." The pleasure behind this completely escapes me.

1. How do you know that vodka is really vodka?

2. How can you buy that which has already been bought?

3. Is it really fun to watch a model get drunk?

I am lost :think:

It's just another thing to tip for. Some guys enjoy tipping but like to have a "reason" for their tips. So it's just another "reason". Plus, it's fun to drink with your favorite model.


I can see some guys doing it for the reason Luna described but... I don't want those guys in my room. It like to think it's more just for fun.
 
SexyStephXS said:
It's just another thing to tip for. Some guys enjoy tipping but like to have a "reason" for their tips. So it's just another "reason". Plus, it's fun to drink with your favorite model.


I can see some guys doing it for the reason Luna described but... I don't want those guys in my room. It like to think it's more just for fun.

I choose to believe this reason so I do not lose to much faith in humanity ;)

I knew a guy on MFC who twice paid the same model to get completely shitfaced to the point where she stopped moving on cam. I stopped talking to that asshole when he told me that
 
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I will admit to not really getting the tip for drinks thing either. Buying a girl in a club a drink is generally just an excuse to talk to her in the vague hopes that it might lead to some sex later in the evening. Buying friends a drink is different too as it's generally reciprocated. Cam girls aren't really able to "buy" their members a drink. It also leaves things open for idiots to attempt to tip the model to drink more than she would have otherwise chosen to drink in the hopes that she gets sloppy drunk and does/says something she'll regret. But a lot of guys seem to be happy to tip for it without the bad intentions, so c'est la vie.

One thing I just can not understand is the idiot basics and guests who roll into a room and just blurt out "pussy", "show feet", "ass ass ass".

1. In the recorded history of time, has a cam girl ever been going about her business and when confronted with a random "pussy" demand from someone she knows can't tip her, resultantly think to herself "ooh, I better stop what I'm doing and flop my pussy out to appease this non-tipping stranger!"?

2. How many rooms must these idiots enter and blurt out "ass" in, only to be denied the sight of gaping asshole, before they conclude "I'm not likely to see the results I'm hoping for by merely demanding them with obnoxious one-word-sentences, maybe I should stop being a dick and go do something worthwhile"?
 
mynameisbob84 said:
One thing I just can not understand is the idiot basics and guests who roll into a room and just blurt out "pussy", "show feet", "ass ass ass".

1. In the recorded history of time, has a cam girl ever been going about her business and when confronted with a random "pussy" demand from someone she knows can't tip her, resultantly think to herself "ooh, I better stop what I'm doing and flop my pussy out to appease this non-tipping stranger!"?

2. How many rooms must these idiots enter and blurt out "ass" in, only to be denied the sight of gaping asshole, before they conclude "I'm not likely to see the results I'm hoping for by merely demanding them with obnoxious one-word-sentences, maybe I should stop being a dick and go do something worthwhile"?


I tend to think there are two plausible answers to this question. One is they literally are idiots with an IQ so low it could substitute as daily high temperatures in northern Canada, so they will never learn. Or two, there is just such a daily influx of newbies, who don't understand it won't work, that we will be plagued with them for all time.
 
JerryBoBerry said:
mynameisbob84 said:
One thing I just can not understand is the idiot basics and guests who roll into a room and just blurt out "pussy", "show feet", "ass ass ass".

1. In the recorded history of time, has a cam girl ever been going about her business and when confronted with a random "pussy" demand from someone she knows can't tip her, resultantly think to herself "ooh, I better stop what I'm doing and flop my pussy out to appease this non-tipping stranger!"?

2. How many rooms must these idiots enter and blurt out "ass" in, only to be denied the sight of gaping asshole, before they conclude "I'm not likely to see the results I'm hoping for by merely demanding them with obnoxious one-word-sentences, maybe I should stop being a dick and go do something worthwhile"?


I tend to think there are two plausible answers to this question. One is they literally are idiots with an IQ so low it could substitute as daily high temperatures in northern Canada, so they will never learn. Or two, there is just such a daily influx of newbies, who don't understand it won't work, that we will be plagued with them for all time.

They do it for the same reason men send dick pics to strangers. Sooner or later it a always works. Maybe not in the rooms your in but go to a brand new models room. Or someone on the last page. It works once in awhile.
 
Ambers Troll said:
What completely confuses you about chat, a fetish, members/ models, chatsites?

Guess mine is the trade in videos. If I wanted porn I just get it anywhere, if I wanted something specific simply asking for it as a pvt show is easier.

Videos make sense to me sometimes. I can only speak about MFC, but it is very much set up as a social site, where members are encouraged to feel as though they "know" the model. So in that case, the video is of someone you know well (to a degree) or perhaps even a gf experience for some members. To me it is logical that those guys would want to see videos of their dream girls.

For me though, I do not like b/g videos. That simply ruins the fantasy for me :lol:

What I do not get is the pricing for some videos. I recently saw a model selling her 11 minute blowjob video for 1500 tokens. There is simply no way I would pay over $100 for 11 minutes, no matter how gorgeous the model is.

I do like custom videos. They are higher quality than private shows and I get exactly what I like/fantasize about. So for me, those are the best, and I will happily pay for them (within reason :p )
 
Members saying "Hi" or actually asking a question only to leave IMMEDIATELY after, not even allowing enough time for me to answer.

This happens multiple times per day, I don't get it.
 
JoleneBrody said:
Members saying "Hi" or actually asking a question only to leave IMMEDIATELY after, not even allowing enough time for me to answer.

This happens multiple times per day, I don't get it.

Saw a guy enter a room yesterday, say hi to the model, she replied, he said something else, waited 5 seconds, then said "I guess you are too busy. Have a good day." :woops:
 
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JimsX said:
JoleneBrody said:
Members saying "Hi" or actually asking a question only to leave IMMEDIATELY after, not even allowing enough time for me to answer.

This happens multiple times per day, I don't get it.

Saw a guy enter a room yesterday, say hi to the model, she replied, he said something else, waited 5 seconds, then said "I guess you are too busy. Have a good day." :woops:

I am thankful when these guys leave. Dodged the attention whore bullet!
 
Camgirl said:
JimsX said:
JoleneBrody said:
Members saying "Hi" or actually asking a question only to leave IMMEDIATELY after, not even allowing enough time for me to answer.

This happens multiple times per day, I don't get it.

Saw a guy enter a room yesterday, say hi to the model, she replied, he said something else, waited 5 seconds, then said "I guess you are too busy. Have a good day." :woops:

I am thankful when these guys leave. Dodged the attention whore bullet!

Oh have you now?? Well that's fiiiiiiiiiiine by me, honey. HAVE A NICE LIFE!!!


:shifty:
 
I don't get date raffles. I mean, I get why the models do it but I can't understand why members are into it. I'm all about keeping internet life seperate from real life. Paying for a chance to meet someone is just silly to me, even if it was a real celebrity. No offence meant to the guys that like date raffles, just something I never found appealing.
 
JimsX said:
What I do not get is the pricing for some videos. I recently saw a model selling her 11 minute blowjob video for 1500 tokens. There is simply no way I would pay over $100 for 11 minutes, no matter how gorgeous the model is.

Some models price their videos quite high to discourage people buying them and then uploading them elsewhere.

Less chance of people uploading it for a bunch of freeloaders if they spent a buttload of cash on it.
 
Leon_Omega said:
Some models price their videos quite high to discourage people buying them and then uploading them elsewhere.

Less chance of people uploading it for a bunch of freeloaders if they spent a buttload of cash on it.
Weird strategy, not sure if spending a buttload equals less chance of it being uploaded. Could make it more likely to get uploaded. Have these models/or any here that do this have it work for them?
 
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I have to add, I really enjoy premium videos given as prizes for various things, like high tipper for a show, or even "everyone who tips at least [x] for this show gets a video." My only annoyance is when a model does one of these variations then when you win, she claims things that show she really wasn't prepared to give away videos.

This has happened several times on SM. Once, the model PM'd me a day later and claimed, "there's a bug in SM's software that won't let me send out videos, how about if I give you a month of Snapchat instead?" Another model claimed I have to have a gmail email address to get her video. Very strange indeed.
 
Leon_Omega said:
JimsX said:
What I do not get is the pricing for some videos. I recently saw a model selling her 11 minute blowjob video for 1500 tokens. There is simply no way I would pay over $100 for 11 minutes, no matter how gorgeous the model is.

Some models price their videos quite high to discourage people buying them and then uploading them elsewhere.

Less chance of people uploading it for a bunch of freeloaders if they spent a buttload of cash on it.

A lot of girls also do it to make their videos feel more exclusive and giving high tipping members another big ticket item to tip for.

Nordling said:
Another model claimed I have to have a gmail email address to get her video. Very strange indeed.

That was probably honest on her part. A lot of newer girls will use google drive for their videos and mistakenly think they can only send them to gmail accounts.
 
SexyStephXS said:
Leon_Omega said:
JimsX said:
What I do not get is the pricing for some videos. I recently saw a model selling her 11 minute blowjob video for 1500 tokens. There is simply no way I would pay over $100 for 11 minutes, no matter how gorgeous the model is.

Some models price their videos quite high to discourage people buying them and then uploading them elsewhere.

Less chance of people uploading it for a bunch of freeloaders if they spent a buttload of cash on it.

A lot of girls also do it to make their videos feel more exclusive and giving high tipping members another big ticket item to tip for.

Nordling said:
Another model claimed I have to have a gmail email address to get her video. Very strange indeed.

That was probably honest on her part. A lot of newer girls will use google drive for their videos and mistakenly think they can only send them to gmail accounts.
Oh, yeah, in fact I think both examples were honest. It was just so strange that I wasn't able to explain to her that the brand of email shouldn't matter...but then I remember back when someone was trying to explain something to me that seemed like nuclear physics but once I "got" it, it was a piece of cake. lol
 
mynameisbob84 said:
I will admit to not really getting the tip for drinks thing either. Buying a girl in a club a drink is generally just an excuse to talk to her in the vague hopes that it might lead to some sex later in the evening. Buying friends a drink is different too as it's generally reciprocated. Cam girls aren't really able to "buy" their members a drink. It also leaves things open for idiots to attempt to tip the model to drink more than she would have otherwise chosen to drink in the hopes that she gets sloppy drunk and does/says something she'll regret. But a lot of guys seem to be happy to tip for it without the bad intentions, so c'est la vie.

One thing I just can not understand is the idiot basics and guests who roll into a room and just blurt out "pussy", "show feet", "ass ass ass".

1. In the recorded history of time, has a cam girl ever been going about her business and when confronted with a random "pussy" demand from someone she knows can't tip her, resultantly think to herself "ooh, I better stop what I'm doing and flop my pussy out to appease this non-tipping stranger!"?

2. How many rooms must these idiots enter and blurt out "ass" in, only to be denied the sight of gaping asshole, before they conclude "I'm not likely to see the results I'm hoping for by merely demanding them with obnoxious one-word-sentences, maybe I should stop being a dick and go do something worthwhile"?

in the recorded history of time,,,lol,

anyway, one i agree it would seem the pool was just a tad shallow for the high dive with some of these guests.

but i always thought it was either a joke by a skype contact, or a 12 year old.. I attribute most wtf comments to these two groups of ppl when guests talk.

Also plenty of guys over spend,it is fun to tip, and force themselves to stay a guest. but these guests will talk with the normal sarcastic crazy comical mfc chat lingo.
 
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JoleneBrody said:
Members saying "Hi" or actually asking a question only to leave IMMEDIATELY after, not even allowing enough time for me to answer.

This happens multiple times per day, I don't get it.

i have done this , i get to opening up chat rooms browsing for chat, and the model will have like 3 or so attempts at saying hi
to everyone. I feel i should type hi , without a real reason.. Then my computer starts to do the jinga, i have to shut down. so i leave without warning it would appear. )) and ofc i forget where i was at.. or just start looking all over again.
 
PunkInDrublic said:
Leon_Omega said:
Some models price their videos quite high to discourage people buying them and then uploading them elsewhere.

Less chance of people uploading it for a bunch of freeloaders if they spent a buttload of cash on it.
Weird strategy, not sure if spending a buttload equals less chance of it being uploaded. Could make it more likely to get uploaded. Have these models/or any here that do this have it work for them?
I charge ~$8/minute for custom requests depending on the difficulty, and so far I've never had any caps anywhere. Not videos, not live shows. It could just be because I haven't looked in the right places or that I'm blind, but I'd like to think it's because people are too afraid I'd rip them a new asshole and start charging triple. :whistle:
 
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