Humiliation Tips

[NicoleRiley]

I haven't done any sort of humiliation stuff, but I've received a few requests recently. The most recent one being a guy wanting me to make fun of him and laugh at him while he's wearing lingerie. I am really interested in doing humiliation (including SCH which I've never done but want to) but I just don't know what sort of things to say. Any tips on things to say. I know once I get started I'll be able to really get into it, But yeah basically.. what are some basic things.. like names to call him and whatnot?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I think Lolli will be able to help you out on this one. There is a really good thread on it in the models only. Maybe someone will send you the link to it.

 

[NicoleRiley]

Ahh I suck. I used the search feature and failed. Thanks, I shall go hunt for it now!

 

[ComicOzzie]

LOL, I saw the title to this thread and thought it would be about 1 token tips. Not even close!

 

[LaceyRoyce]

viewtopic.php?f=35&t=7792&p=196525&hilit=domination#p196525

theres the thread! I'd love it to come back to life! I'd also rather discuss this in PM or models only

 

[LadyLuna]

See, when I saw this thread I thought "maybe they're insulting her in the tipnotes?"

How do you handle insulting tipnotes?

If the "insult" is a 6 token request, I act like it was just a 6 token tip in public, but try to pm them either how much more I'd need to do the request, or let them know in pm that I don't do that in public chat and they should take me private.

If it's an actual insult, I either have a witty response or ignore it, depending on how I actually feel about it. (someone calling me stupid will get schooled on my IQ and college degree )

 

[bob]

See, when I saw this thread I thought "maybe they're insulting her in the tipnotes?"

How do you handle insulting tipnotes?

If the "insult" is a 6 token request, I act like it was just a 6 token tip in public, but try to pm them either how much more I'd need to do the request, or let them know in pm that I don't do that in public chat and they should take me private.

If it's an actual insult, I either have a witty response or ignore it, depending on how I actually feel about it. (someone calling me stupid will get schooled on my IQ and college degree )

i thought it was about tips that accompany insults too....i know it's all just tokens in the end, but that kind of guy stuff is fingernails on a chalkboard to me....

 

[Jupiter551]

I think I'd be great at humiliation - no one knows what a girl can say to humiliate a guy, better than a guy

 

[NewFlesh]

Stories/scenario ideas
http://tags.literotica.com/humiliation

Fetlife Communities
https://fetlife.com/groups/179
https://fetlife.com/groups/42

Fetish/humiliation word list
http://maxwren.wordpress.com/2012/07/29 ... uys-swoon/

Specific humiliation requests likely require a bit of specific research.

 

[SNATCH]

I haven't done any sort of humiliation stuff, but I've received a few requests recently. The most recent one being a guy wanting me to make fun of him and laugh at him while he's wearing lingerie. I am really interested in doing humiliation (including SCH which I've never done but want to) but I just don't know what sort of things to say. Any tips on things to say. I know once I get started I'll be able to really get into it, But yeah basically.. what are some basic things.. like names to call him and whatnot?

No lie, I am TERRIBLE at these, because I run out of shit to say. If I'm not mad, I have a hard time talking shit. ONE THING... I always like to ask what the persons limits are. Because I'm known for saying some foul shit, && I don't want to ruin someones boner, by telling them I wish they'd sit on a stop sign. HAHA. You get my drift. Always a good thing to know what to stay away from. .

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I always find when someone has a particular fetish they're really specific. They'll be loving it then you'll say something pretty much along the same lines as what you've been saying before and they'll suddenly get funny about it!
I get the impression that if I ever did the humiliation thing I'd end up being too mean and then the guy would get upset about it, or there'd be a really fine line between what I could say that they'd get off on and what they're genuinely be insulted by.

 

[StanislavJ]

I always find when someone has a particular fetish they're really specific. They'll be loving it then you'll say something pretty much along the same lines as what you've been saying before and they'll suddenly get funny about it!
I get the impression that if I ever did the humiliation thing I'd end up being too mean and then the guy would get upset about it, or there'd be a really fine line between what I could say that they'd get off on and what they're genuinely be insulted by.

It can be hard to tell, since "humiliation" can run the gamut from just humorous teasing and embarrassment to outright vicious attacks and insults, depending on the mindset and desires of the recipient. My own personal tastes run to good-natured teasing -- the kind of thing that makes me blush, not cringe. When I request a model to view my cam and freely comment, I try to phrase the request in such a manner as to strongly indicate what I am seeking, without blatantly suggesting or feeding lines (I want honest, spontaneous reactions, not script-reading). Sometimes the model gets the drift and it works out nicely; other times not so much.