On the one hand, I really genuinely hope this guy gets some help and is able to work through his pain, and that he didn't fuck his life up too badly financially.
On the other hand his story slips into a pattern of how these things go that I've heard the model's perspective on from my cousins and some of their friends who work as cam models in Colombia.
Some guy shows up in your room. He is generous and kind and becomes a regular. You strike up a good rapport, and a relationship develops. He seems genuinely interested in you, and so you let him in and begin to share aspects of your personal life. You talk about your family, your history, and your problems.
When he hears your problems, he offers to send money. He seems to enjoy helping you, and the money smoothes over a lot of rough patches. He says he's in love with you, and despite being much older and fat and missing an eye after an incident where he ate a bowl of macaroni and cheese way too aggressively, he seems like he would treat you well and his money would take care of you and your family. So you fall into a fantasy where you marry this guy and your life gets better.
But over time his rough edges show. He's needy and demanding of your time. He starts to get jealous of your job. He starts to accuse you of lying or manipulating him for money. He acts like, because of the times he helped you financially, that he owns you.
Eventually either he has an emotional implosion or you cut him loose. He accuses you of scamming him. The scam here, ultimately, is that he thought he was buying you, but you weren't for sale..
Then he registers on Ambercutie.
It's been suggested before that I am way too credulous of what models tell me, but I find guys being shitty and abusive a lot more common than lovecons. So when I hear this girl faked her death, I don't think scam. I think "why was she afraid of this guy?"
And him saying, "I know her real name and could humiliate her" suggests the answer to me.
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