Have you ever met your Goddess?

[Matt255]

I see that a lot of models regardless of camscore have about 4-5 regulars. Also that number one fan who only logs on when that model is on. Sometimes they are cool and sometimes they attack noobs for answering reasonable questions or comments that they make. Or if another member is asking the model a question they are quick to answer for them. Sometimes it feels like they are the models unofficial pimps. Not all are bad just a few are like annoying at times.
When I see these members I always wonder.
1. How much did you spend to make you king/queen of their room?
2. Have you ever met said in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?
3.Have you been with the model since day 1?
Models
1.Have you met any of your regulars/ would you meet them?
2. Do they bring in new tippers are scare them off?

 

[Evvie]

I see that a lot of models regardless of camscore have about 4-5 regulars. Also that number one fan who only logs on when that model is on. Sometimes they are cool and sometimes they attack noobs for answering reasonable questions or comments that they make. Or if another member is asking the model a question they are quick to answer for them. Sometimes it feels like they are the models unofficial pimps. Not all are bad just a few are like annoying at times.
When I see these members I always wonder.
1. How much did you spend to make you king/queen of their room?
2. Have you ever met said in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?
3.Have you been with the model since day 1?
Models
1.Have you met any of your regulars/ would you meet them?
2. Do they bring in new tippers are scare them off?

1. In my experience it always isn't amount spent that makes members popular with models; it's time spent and how friendly and helpful the member is.
2. I've never met anyone so I can't help you there. I'd say not for the majority though.
3. No comment on this one as well.
1. I would never meet any of my members, no.
2. Both.

 

[Evvie]

(Oh, also, it seems like you're asking how much you'll need to pay to get in with a model and end up meeting her. That seems kind of like a bad stance to take?)

 

[Shaun__]

1. How much did you spend to make you king/queen of their room?

I spent large amounts of time.

2. Have you ever met said in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?

I have never met any of the models I know. I have had opportunities, but work and life got in the way. It would be nice to grab a meal and chat, if we are ever in the same general area.

3.Have you been with the model since day 1?

Nope.

 

[Matt255]

(Oh, also, it seems like you're asking how much you'll need to pay to get in with a model and end up meeting her. That seems kind of like a bad stance to take?)

Just to get in with some models.

 

[Evvie]

(Oh, also, it seems like you're asking how much you'll need to pay to get in with a model and end up meeting her. That seems kind of like a bad stance to take?)

Just to get in with some models.

The best way to get "in" with some models is to spend time just hanging out, being there, and being cool.

However, starting a relationship with a model with the eventual hope of meeting her seems like a bad idea, even if the intent is not sexual.

 

[Jessi]

The reality is that 99% of models on the site are there to work, and probably don't want to meet up. Making friends with them with the intent or hoping to later coax them into meeting you seems dishonest and would probably make the model think you're a huge creep if they found out.

 

[Swirl]

I think your approach is off. First, do not think about meeting models, ever. Camsites are not dating sites, so get that out of your head right away. Second, it is not all about the money...you need to be chatty and friendly and fun and helpful and you also probably need to tip. If you want to get in with a model, try hanging around and being nice and dropping a few tokens here and there. It's simple!

 

[LadyLuna]

I'm going to answer all your questions from the model's point of view.

1. How much did a member spend to make him/her king/queen of my room?


This has never happened. I do not take kindly to someone attempting to take control of public chat away from me. Maybe, if someone decided to tip me 10,000 token a day for an entire month, I might be okay with them dictating my room for half of the year. (after all, I'll need the other half of the year to regain control over my room and regain all the fans I'd lose from letting someone else play king of the hill)

2. Have you ever met a member in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?


No. When I took the job, I promised my partner who introduced me to it that I would not meet anyone from the site. Since then, he has released me from that promise in the case of models I might like to meet and members who have become friends of both of us. However, I have since promised friends and family that I won't meet members.

3.Has any member been with you since day 1?

The members that were there early on moved on a few months later. Many of them came back to visit on occasion, but who is a regular in my room changes every month or so.

4. Do they bring in new tippers are scare them off?

I have never had anyone give a large tip, except once. The members who tried to control my room alienated other members, whether they were doing it cause they'd been there awhile or they were doing it cause they felt they had paid more than other members and thus deserved to control my room. I had to ask any who did it to stop, and any who didn't stop were banned for not recognizing that I controlled my room.

In particular, I had one gentleman who had a habit of finishing a countdown and then proceeding to attempt to change the circumstances of the show the countdown was for. This was not cool. If he wanted me to do something different than the countdown, then he should've tipped the price for the request that was listed in my profile, or taken me private. No matter how much or little was left on the countdown.

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In short, the only way to become a welcome sight is to act respectfully to both the model and the members in her room, and respect her boundaries and the fact that she needs to be the one in control in public chat. If a model is going to be willing to meet the members, she needs to be the one to bring it up. NEVER the other way around.

 

[Anonymous]

I see that a lot of models regardless of camscore have about 4-5 regulars. Also that number one fan who only logs on when that model is on. Sometimes they are cool and sometimes they attack noobs for answering reasonable questions or comments that they make. Or if another member is asking the model a question they are quick to answer for them. Sometimes it feels like they are the models unofficial pimps. Not all are bad just a few are like annoying at times.
When I see these members I always wonder.
1. How much did you spend to make you king/queen of their room?
2. Have you ever met said in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?
3.Have you been with the model since day 1?
Models
1.Have you met any of your regulars/ would you meet them?
2. Do they bring in new tippers are scare them off?

1. No, I haven't met any of my regulars, and I don't plan on it either...unless I were to attend one of those cam girl conventions one day. But that would be the only way I'd make it possible for a regular to meet me.
2. All sorts of different personalities in my room...some are way more outspoken than others. I hope none of them scare off new tippers. LOL.


And I wanted to add that I don't ever plan on doing that "Control my room for a day" thing. Not knocking anyone who does it, but I just don't like the idea of giving that much control to someone else when it's supposed to be my chatroom.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Sometimes they are cool and sometimes they attack noobs for answering reasonable questions or comments that they make.

Sorry, but the following are NOT reasonable questions...

- where are you from, bb? (read the futting profile!)
- do you squirt?
- why are you so beautiful? (god, I hate that question. It makes no sense!!!!)
- will you marry me? (usually asked 3 minutes after entering the room for the first time)
- can you see my cam?
- do you escort?
- what does "tip 10-69 for naked" mean?
- do you sell videos? (if they do, I guarantee its mentioned in detail on the profile or in the topic)

 

[Jessi]

When my profile says "Buy videos if you're cool!" Theres always at least 3 or 4 people who come in to say HURR DURR WHAT ARE THE VIDEOS/HOW LONG/HOW MUCH. Oh I just keep a running menu in my head..profile buddy!

 

[Matt255]

Sometimes they are cool and sometimes they attack noobs for answering reasonable questions or comments that they make.

Sorry, but the following are NOT reasonable questions...

- where are you from, bb? (read the futting profile!)
- do you squirt?
- why are you so beautiful? (god, I hate that question. It makes no sense!!!!)
- will you marry me? (usually asked 3 minutes after entering the room for the first time)
- can you see my cam?
- do you escort?
- what does "tip 10-69 for naked" mean?
- do you sell videos? (if they do, I guarantee its mentioned in detail on the profile or in the topic)

1. That is a basic compliment, I hear people say that to people they actually know.
2. Obviously if you are new to anything they do not understand the workings of a topic.
3. Some models don't.

 

[Crumb]

...
1. How much did you spend to make you king/queen of their room?
2. Have you ever met said in person in real life through a raffle or at a convention?
3.Have you been with the model since day 1?

sometimes it feels like i'm "king" of a roomso i'll answer
1. a fair bit of tokens and way more time spent in her room chatting with her and other guys in the room
2. I haven't, and don't expect to as it's a little more inconvenient due to that she lives in Russia
3. no, I found her about a month after I joined MFC... maybe I have attachment issues
generally what I do is reply to the beggars and answer stupid basic questions that deserve a smart ass remark
show ass, boobs, feet etc, whatever... is where i chime in with "buy some tokens and she just might show you"
on the other hand, I can be quite helpful to the new guys wondering what private shows are, how much they cost etc and from time to time when i see a prem wondering aloud about a pvt show with her I'll put on my pimp hat and my go-to response is "she gives good pvt, you should totally take her"
and she's never asked me to stop or shut up

 

[Bocefish]

I don't think it has anything to do with spending large amounts although that probably doesn't hurt. It has way more to do with time spent, a certain level of trust and mutual respect. Meeting up should have nothing to do with it. If that's your goal, might as well fuhgetaboutit now.

 

[VeronicaChaos]

Somebody in my room called my longest regular and friend the "king" tonight and did like a hail the king emote. I thought it was kind of neat. Like I'm building an empire or something. He has in the past gotten similar sort of praise. I'm not entirely sure what makes this friend the king, but he hangs out a lot, contributes to countdowns, and everyone likes him. It makes me happy that the people in my room appreciate each other. It's kind of like they're using my chatroom as an RPG. :dance:

 

[Matt255]

I'm not saying how much you spent to meet the model. I'm asking if you are a regular or #1 fan have you ever met the model? Regardless if you spent 1 or 10,000 tokens.

 

[Anonymous]

When my profile says "Buy videos if you're cool!" Theres always at least 3 or 4 people who come in to say HURR DURR WHAT ARE THE VIDEOS/HOW LONG/HOW MUCH. Oh I just keep a running menu in my head..profile buddy!

Oh yeah, the 50 questions they ask about your videos...lol.

"How long is the video?"
(from seeing a preview pic) "Who's that White guy in the video? Do you not like Black guys?" :roll:
"Do you squirt in it?"
"Where is the cumshot?"
"Is there any deepthroating in the video?"
ETC.

 

[Bocefish]

I'm not saying how much you spent to meet the model. I'm asking if you are a regular or #1 fan have you ever met the model? Regardless if you spent 1 or 10,000 tokens.

Why does it matter? It's really none of your business which or if members and models have ever met. Why are you so hung up on meeting info?

 

[ScarletRaven]

I'm not saying how much you spent to meet the model. I'm asking if you are a regular or #1 fan have you ever met the model? Regardless if you spent 1 or 10,000 tokens.

I like to meet MFC members at conventions like Exxxotica. It is so much fun to me to be able to put a face with a name and have the opportunity to hang out and talk. Conventions are a good place for that because there are lots of people around and I don't feels uncomfortable or pressured. I my room its like a big dysfunctional family and some of the people I have met are my close friends. This happened over months of regular visits to my room, Twitter interaction, interaction through my forum and while supporting my model friends in their rooms.

Every model is different so it will be hard to find one answer to your question. Good luck with your search XOXO

 

[Matt255]

I'm not saying how much you spent to meet the model. I'm asking if you are a regular or #1 fan have you ever met the model? Regardless if you spent 1 or 10,000 tokens.

I like to meet MFC members at conventions like Exxxotica. It is so much fun to me to be able to put a face with a name and have the opportunity to hang out and talk. Conventions are a good place for that because there are lots of people around and I don't feels uncomfortable or pressured. I my room its like a big dysfunctional family and some of the people I have met are my close friends. This happened over months of regular visits to my room, Twitter interaction, interaction through my forum and while supporting my model friends in their rooms.

Every model is different so it will be hard to find one answer to your question. Good luck with your search XOXO

Thank you this is exactly the type of answer I was looking for.

 

[sweetiebatman]

Here are some of my random musings about this topic and the thread so far

1)I don't consider the tokens to be the key thing in how well you are regarded in a models room, Yeh they are important, you won't get by for ever on being an all round nice guy but theres Models whos rooms I go in where I have a bit of a chat and drop a bit of coinage and i feel like i make a bit of a difference, Theres other models where I could drop thousands and it wouldnt really matter, not that either approach is wrong, just different!

2) I think any member who signs up and/or drops tokens expecting to control a room/meet a model/have special privileges beyond "tipped for" content is on a hiding to nothing and has misunderstood what the site is about. Models are here to make money, thats the long on the short of it. Like we all go out to work to make money and yeh, its nice when we get along with folk and enjoy the work it should be understood (IMO) that any online friendship or in the rare occasion things progress further it is the exception rather than the rule

3) If i'm in a models room, i'll sometimes answer questions for them,And its not me trying to be a White Knight or be a dick, I'm trying to stem the flow of monotonous questions to the models. and 9 out of 10 questions can be answered on the profile

4)As far as "Day 1 models" I can't say I have, There is a few models whose company i prefer and might probably be regarded a reg, Models come and go, sad as it is to say and there can't be many still around from when I started on MFC, there is certainly few from my friends list

In short, MFC is not a place for those with attachment issues!



Phew!

 

[Teagan]

Here are some of my random musings about this topic and the thread so far

1)I don't consider the tokens to be the key thing in how well you are regarded in a models room, Yeh they are important, you won't get by for ever on being an all round nice guy but theres Models whos rooms I go in where I have a bit of a chat and drop a bit of coinage and i feel like i make a bit of a difference, Theres other models where I could drop thousands and it wouldnt really matter, not that either approach is wrong, just different!

2) I think any member who signs up and/or drops tokens expecting to control a room/meet a model/have special privileges beyond "tipped for" content is on a hiding to nothing and has misunderstood what the site is about. Models are here to make money, thats the long on the short of it. Like we all go out to work to make money and yeh, its nice when we get along with folk and enjoy the work it should be understood (IMO) that any online friendship or in the rare occasion things progress further it is the exception rather than the rule

3) If i'm in a models room, i'll sometimes answer questions for them,And its not me trying to be a White Knight or be a dick, I'm trying to stem the flow of monotonous questions to the models. and 9 out of 10 questions can be answered on the profile

4)As far as "Day 1 models" I can't say I have, There is a few models whose company i prefer and might probably be regarded a reg, Models come and go, sad as it is to say and there can't be many still around from when I started on MFC, there is certainly few from my friends list

In short, MFC is not a place for those with attachment issues!



Phew!

i have to say this is pretty much how i feel about a lot of it.

If youre looking to meet a model Matt the best advice any one can give you is it depends on the model. Some will never meet their guys. Some cant really due to other countries. Some hand out date raffles like theyre going out of business.
Me personally i would never do one on one dates with my guys. Its just though cause im not a date girl in real life. I like group stuff. So i would go more the route of "Hey guys im going to Exxotica, youre invited for xxx amount of tokens to join me. Buy in to meet up!" I like that idea as other guys can meet the other guys too and put names to faces, plus its more comfy for me. And no pressure on him to soley entertain me. Though even then id still have a body guard at another table and an agreement with the waiter along the lines of "Gee i wish this place served unicorn" as a call 911 signal lol. But were girls who are paranoid at times about meeting strangers and get constantly asked "How much" on a daily basis as if were all common whores who meet for cash and rent out our vaginas to any one who just has to ask for it.

As far as who i feel comfy meeting its not like we have a set amount of tokens and then trust level is achieved. Its a mix for me mostly and it far more relies on personality than anything.

I hope my regulars dont scare off new tippers and im lucky that the ones i have arent assholes when new people ask questions. I have no issues with guys who ask about vids or shows, cause i know when i would buy a vid id like to know something about it too. And if im busy dancing or masturbating and someone asks im appreciative i have people in my room who can say "All her vids are over 10 minutes" or "I have that one, youll love it if you like xyz." Whenever one has stepped out of line or been rude to a new guy im quick to tell them to be nice. I dont like drama in my real life and i wont put up with it in my room. Im not a rude girl, thats not my vibe, and i wont stand for people acting that way in my room either. My guys know this and even if theyre not that way in their daily life they are when theyre with me. And thats all that matters to me. I like that they have my back and respect me enough to follow my rules in their time with me, and i respect them for that. I dont look at any of them as white knights though a few have saved my ass on more than one occasion.

 

[Bocefish]

I'm not saying how much you spent to meet the model. I'm asking if you are a regular or #1 fan have you ever met the model? Regardless if you spent 1 or 10,000 tokens.

I like to meet MFC members at conventions like Exxxotica. It is so much fun to me to be able to put a face with a name and have the opportunity to hang out and talk. Conventions are a good place for that because there are lots of people around and I don't feels uncomfortable or pressured. I my room its like a big dysfunctional family and some of the people I have met are my close friends. This happened over months of regular visits to my room, Twitter interaction, interaction through my forum and while supporting my model friends in their rooms.

Every model is different so it will be hard to find one answer to your question. Good luck with your search XOXO

Thank you this is exactly the type of answer I was looking for.

The answer you were looking for is that models enjoy meeting members at conventions?

 

[Keltaric]

Hey Matt. Just randomly happened to find this today. Maybe it will help you out:

lilseximommy MFC profile

"if you are interested in meeting plese pm me and have no less then 25,000 tokens"

 

[RogueWarrior]

OP seems to want some sort of "secret" formula to become the "king" of the room which may eventually lead to meeting the model.

First of all, that's the wrong way to go about it. There is no magic token number that makes you king of the room. In fact, a good number of self professed kings of rooms are flaming douchebags who hurt more than help. And for those that aren't, it takes time, time, time....and more time.....more so than tokens (although those don't hurt).

If the goal is to become king of a room & eventually meet a model, wrong place. Delusional. Could it happen? Sure. Just makes no sense to make it a goal. I have a decent rapport (note the use of the word "rapport" & not "relationship") with several models here & on MFC. We exchange jokes, ideas, pleasantries, etc. That's it. No delusions, no illusions.

As for the the thread title? Personally, I don't have a "goddess". That implies unhealthy infatuation. MFC is nothing remotely close to a dating site. To go there with any intentions other than a good time, is folly.

Sorry for the rant (somewhat rambling, somewhat tangential), sometimes I can't help myself.

There should be a thread just for rants........maybe...........just sayin

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

I meet people for 2734537642364237423657432 tokens all the time, bb

 

[SoTxBob]

...a good number of self professed kings of rooms are flaming douchebags.

....any member who signs up and/or drops tokens expecting to control a room/meet a model/have special privileges...has misunderstood what the site is about.

I know more than a handful of these fellas. It's an awkward position for the models. These "douchebags" are in many cases, responsible for a large part of her cam score and income and for that reason are tolerated much of the time. Most of the time, they blend in ok and aren't too overbearing. Other times they actively try to "direct" the flow and are quick to post the "tip me or stfu" emotes that totally change the rooms mood as well as size. 2 of them even tell the model how much to "not show." This is far beyond the sometimes fun tactic of tipping to add clothes to piss off beggars.

As for the OP, I have no desire to be said "king of the room". That's pretty egocentric if you ask me. I have met models in the past. In both cases I had tipped them very little but was indeed in her room whenever possible. The meeting was totally the girls idea and kind of took me by surprise.
Also, to completely clarify, it was NOT a romantic meeting at all. It was 2 friends hanging out and seeing sights and enjoying a few meals while they were in town. As said many times, MFC isn't a dating or hookup site, however in my experience, one can form good friendships with some people that go beyond MFC life.

Lastly, if your goal is to meet a model, don't waste her time with nefarious intentions. Pack your bag and go to the next convention for some glad handing and pic or 2. :dance:

 

[MilaMilan]

I have met over 10 of my regulars in the past 3 years ..In the US and in Europe but also here in Thailand when they were here on holiday ....

Tokens are for me not an issue when it comes to meeting the guys that make my room a pleasurable experience ..I have met guys , had coffee with them/lunch/diner and then took me and their picture as a goodbye, that never have been big ballers but were nice to me and respectful ...... Then it is not about tokens or money....

For non regulars I have a different pattern ...wanna meet when you are here ? Or when I am shooting in Europe or the US ? No problem ...compensate me for my time ..... up to 50.000 tokens for a whole day ( 10-20.000 for 2-3 hours)...and NO SEX ....... or an equivalent in $$ cash (even better) ..I would never ask my regulars for money to meet me ...It is my privilege to do that ...... But when someone is not that regular and still wants to meet it becomes business.......

 

[RogueWarrior]

Pertinent stuff related to the thread

Way off topic, but I just love the quote in your sig. That is all.