Have you ever had adult high schoolers in your room?

[Guy]

Have you ever had adult high schoolers in your room?

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

I hope not.

 

[Guy]

I hope not.

I said adult high schoolers. ( 18 or older)

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

I said adult high schoolers. ( 18 or older)

I still hope not. Anything Highschool related is too close for comfort imo.

 

[RahqZee]

Hard to tell...a lot of guys like to lie and go for "extremes" for the shock value. So when guys claim to be in high school (or junior high, or whatever), I:
1) don't believe them
2) don't verbally respond
3) ban and report them
I'm not going to stop and ask if they're 18...if they're in high school I'm just going to assume that their piddly paychecks aren't enough to make the hassle of verifying legality worth it, you know?

 

[Guy]

Hard to tell...a lot of guys like to lie and go for "extremes" for the shock value. So when guys claim to be in high school (or junior high, or whatever), I:
1) don't believe them
2) don't verbally respond
3) ban and report them
I'm not going to stop and ask if they're 18...if they're in high school I'm just going to assume that their piddly paychecks aren't enough to make the hassle of verifying legality worth it, you know?

What if a guy said he was an 18 year old high schooler or 19 year old high schooler?

 

[RahqZee]

What if a guy said he was an 18 year old high schooler or 19 year old high schooler?

Honestly, if he felt a need to bring that up, I would think it was really weird and block him anyway. I work on SM though, so there's no need for guys to tell me stuff like that about themselves since it isn't as social as MFC. For me, the idea of a barely legal guy jerking it to me is a turn off (I much prefer the older guys) and I wouldn't feel a financial need not to block guys that young, since they're probably not exactly rolling in cash.

 

[Lintilla]

I can't say for sure, but I get a lot of guys who either are that young or want to roleplay that young. Same as @RahqZee, I work on SM these days and block most or all almost immediately. In my case, that's mainly because usually the only reason they're mentioning it to me is that they want some sort of mommy/son roleplay or friend's mom roleplay etc. and I guess I'm old enough that it works for their fantasy. The straight up incest stuff is against the rules, and the rest is something I'm not into and don't provide. If they just happened to be 18 or 19, it wouldn't personally bother me even if I knew, but I'm actually just generally not interested in knowing that information about them. I will admit that I CAN be interested in younger guys (probably not THAT young), but in the context of camming it's completely irrelevant to me as long as they're legal and don't act like a knob (the knob bit goes for any age, of course).

 

[BiancaBaker]

Block Immediately ; there's absolutely no reason a high schooler should be on a cam site (even if he is 18). Normally you graduate high school at 17-18 at the latest. A guy shouldn't be 19 and in high school at least not in America.

 

[Phoenix4987]

You've got a lot of interesting curiosities guy lol

 

[LilyBlueBBW]

if i knew that kind of thing was happening whether it be through camwork or phone sex, i would put an end to it immediately. i am maternal to the point where some folks actually find it annoying so i would never let a child just stay in my room after finding out that it is a child. There are no adult high schoolers that exist unless they are lying about it or they are mentally retarded or have some sort of a disability. There are actually some school districts that allow disabled folks to remain in school until they turn 21. I can see some of the aforementioned on a site like chaturbate but not like streammate. Its no secret that you have to use a credit card to get on a site like streammate and a lot of credit card companies are not really down with issuing credit cards to people with no real credit history and when you are 18, you got no real credit history.
oh shit...i got off topic there. i have had teenagers steal their parents credit cards and make phone sex calls and then a shitload of craziness and chargebacks happen from it but that kind of thing has never happened to me while camming.

 

[Guy]

I just realized something that I should have thought about before
I started this thread: If an adult high school student was on a camsite, chances are he would avoid disclosing the fact that he was in high school.

 

[eyeteach]

If a 19 yr old is still in high school he has bigger issues than whether or not he's visiting a cam site.

 

[SoTxBob]

Its no secret that you have to use a credit card to get on a site like streammate and a lot of credit card companies are not really down with issuing credit cards to people with no real credit history and when you are 18, you got no real credit history.

hate to throw poop on your theory but if you are academically sound and on your way to college, many many CC companies will actively solicit and offer you a card to get you started. They have low limits, usually $500 to $750ish. Where the kid goes from there depends totally on how they pay it back. My son had a few cards with several thousands limit on each at the end of his sophomore year.

I also feel the need to pose the question.... If an 18 yr old girl can cam and show her giblets to the world, why does having 18/19 yr old boys in your rooms rate any differently as long as they can tip and don't act like fools? I'd also wager that there's way more underage pervs than anyone wants to imagine. '

 

[BobbyB]

hate to throw poop on your theory but if you are academically sound and on your way to college, many many CC companies will actively solicit and offer you a card to get you started. They have low limits, usually $500 to $750ish. Where the kid goes from there depends totally on how they pay it back. My son had a few cards with several thousands limit on each at the end of his sophomore year.

I also feel the need to pose the question.... If an 18 yr old girl can cam and show her giblets to the world, why does having 18/19 yr old boys in your rooms rate any differently as long as they can tip and don't act like fools? I'd also wager that there's way more underage pervs than anyone wants to imagine. '

To be a guest on MFC or CB just requires a simple click confirming you are 18, not exactly a high barrier for males of all ages interested in watching nude females..... I guess common knowledge in all interested circles....

 

[RahqZee]

hate to throw poop on your theory but if you are academically sound and on your way to college, many many CC companies will actively solicit and offer you a card to get you started. They have low limits, usually $500 to $750ish. Where the kid goes from there depends totally on how they pay it back. My son had a few cards with several thousands limit on each at the end of his sophomore year.

I also feel the need to pose the question.... If an 18 yr old girl can cam and show her giblets to the world, why does having 18/19 yr old boys in your rooms rate any differently as long as they can tip and don't act like fools? I'd also wager that there's way more underage pervs than anyone wants to imagine. '

For me, I would think if a girl is 18 or 19 and still in high school, she should NOT be camming. For me personally, I feel like when if they're in high school, they should be interacting with the people around them IRL and getting puberty everywhere, you know? It's an impressionable time and all, and they shouldn't be relying on the sexual culture of a camsite to be learning this stuff. It's different if they go to college, especially a college significantly far from home because suddenly you're expected to be an adult and take care of yourself, meet new people, pay your own way, etc. And then maybe camming is a little more suited to their purposes. But in high school you should just be focused on finishing up the last bit of your childhood. Or like figuring out why the shit you're 19 and in high school, like what is that.

Also, I would be really worried that one of those credit cards they throw at kids that age would be billed to mommy and daddy, and then Junior is reversing the charges to cover his ass on the grand he dropped on his new online crush (again, I'm not on MFC so I don't know their charge back policy or whatever).

But bottom line, if I don't *know* a guy is in high school, then I don't care. Also this whole post was written while super duper under the influence so...assume the vibe behind it is super chill.

 

[SoTxBob]

For me, I would think if a girl is 18 or 19 and still in high school, she should NOT be camming.

Also, I would be really worried that one of those credit cards they throw at kids that age would be billed to mommy and daddy, and then Junior is reversing the charges to cover his ass on the grand he dropped on his new online crush

What is it about the in/out of HS distinction ? Its the same as the magical distinction of turning 18 and being legal for many things. Like some brain switch clicks over to making adult decisions now. [BTW- I mostly agree with you about not being online @ that age but its still a fact of reality.]
I have seen many girls that not only act 18 but when you add the 'empowerment' of making this kind of cash along with the wide eyed know it all attitudes, you frequently watch a girl find more trouble that she knew was possible.

The CC Im refering to are not anything to do with parents. They don't co-sign or guarantee them in any way. In fact I have seen some solicit the kids @ campus job fairs or other events @ 17. While i'm sure there are plenty of cards for the kids that are on the parents accounts those kids would also have restrictions for their use, as in emergencies only and not entertainment. In those cases you very much risk the wrath of your parents.
I was more irresponsible than my boys were. My first card, mom had no clue I even had. I had little clue about the payment part. I went out and bought $500 worth of new wet suit and dive stuff. 3 weeks later the reality of payments hit. Luckily my kids were smarter than I was and had listened to some of my many 'sermons' on financial responsibility and money management.

 

[Guy]

What is it about the in/out of HS distinction ? Its the same as the magical distinction of turning 18 and being legal for many things. Like some brain switch clicks over to making adult decisions now. [BTW- I mostly agree with you about not being online @ that age but its still a fact of reality.]
I have seen many girls that not only act 18 but when you add the 'empowerment' of making this kind of cash along with the wide eyed know it all attitudes, you frequently watch a girl find more trouble that she knew was possible.

The CC Im refering to are not anything to do with parents. They don't co-sign or guarantee them in any way. In fact I have seen some solicit the kids @ campus job fairs or other events @ 17. While i'm sure there are plenty of cards for the kids that are on the parents accounts those kids would also have restrictions for their use, as in emergencies only and not entertainment. In those cases you very much risk the wrath of your parents.
I was more irresponsible than my boys were. My first card, mom had no clue I even had. I had little clue about the payment part. I went out and bought $500 worth of new wet suit and dive stuff. 3 weeks later the reality of payments hit. Luckily my kids were smarter than I was and had listened to some of my many 'sermons' on financial responsibility and money management.

MFC and Chaturbate accept Visa and MasterCard gift cards. They could just use their birthday or Christmas present.

 

[SoTxBob]

MFC and Chaturbate accept Visa and MasterCard gift cards. They could just use their birthday or Christmas present.

Of course thats also another option but not anything in question.

 

[RahqZee]

The only distinction that high school makes is purely in my mind, it's just the personal cut off for me between "ok, still young but whatever" and "oh gross". Like the difference between fucking an older guy with the same first name was your dad, and fucking a guy with the same name who also wears the same cologne. It means nothing, but it'a just a mental block. I just associate "high school" with "young and immature and probably too annoying to be worth whatever couple of bucks they MIGHT throw my way".

 

[RahqZee]

I mean yes, they probably *could* be financially secure enough to have porn-spending money, and maybe they aren't too immature to hold a decent conversation, but if that were the case they'd probably be the most sought after high schooler ever and haven't had the time to stumble onto a cam site.

 

[EspiKvlt]

Yes, there was, in fact, a click in my brain after I graduated high school. I also matured exponentially when I left for college. Yes, there is a massive difference between being in high school and graduating and being thrust into adulthood.

And yes, I'd feel weirded out if an 18 year old in high school was in my room.

 

[Guy]

Yes, there was, in fact, a click in my brain after I graduated high school. I also matured exponentially when I left for college. Yes, there is a massive difference between being in high school and graduating and being thrust into adulthood.

And yes, I'd feel weirded out if an 18 year old in high school was in my room.

Seems like the reason why some models would not want 18 year old high schoolers in their room is the maturity issue.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

There isn't a magical time that makes men or women mature. I get so skeeved out by some camgirls in their early twenties because I feel like they are young teens with how they behave, and that just creeps me out. There are girls who could cam their 18th birthday and be amazing and rock it from such a classy, mature and business woman angle. Everyone is different. If you're 18 you get to be in and/or watch porn, end of story. We all have 40 year old members who are the most immature people we have ever met so I don't think it's fair to judge anyone unless they have already shown their maturity level to you.

I would not block but I also would not engage in conversation with someone who brought up the fact that they're in high school or only 18/19 just because of my experiences with people saying so. It's like when you say "how are you?" and the person responds "we're fine, it's just me and my boyfriend/mom/etc here". They're looking to get off on the response you give so I don't give one. I'm not going to block you for being young but I certainly won't talk to you about it either.

Everyone who wants an orgasm has the right to give themselves one, every one who is 18 has the right to view porn to help them along. So who cares?

 

[SaffronBurke]

Also, I would be really worried that one of those credit cards they throw at kids that age would be billed to mommy and daddy, and then Junior is reversing the charges to cover his ass on the grand he dropped on his new online crush (again, I'm not on MFC so I don't know their charge back policy or whatever).

I got an application for a Capital One card right after I registered for college. It had no requirements of a parent or co-signor, because I was 18 and legally old enough to apply for credit myself. And Capital One will approve anyone for a card, you just get a really small limit if your credit is new or bad - I have terrible credit due to heaps of medical bills, and I have a card from them with a $300 limit.

 

[RahqZee]

I got an application for a Capital One card right after I registered for college. It had no requirements of a parent or co-signor, because I was 18 and legally old enough to apply for credit myself. And Capital One will approve anyone for a card, you just get a really small limit if your credit is new or bad - I have terrible credit due to heaps of medical bills, and I have a card from them with a $300 limit.

To clarify: I meant I would worry that the bill itself would be going to the parents' residence, although not necessarily in their name. But if the kid is in high school, it's pretty likely that they're still living at home and not beyond reasonable to suspect their parents might open the bill, see the charges, unleash hell, etc. I don't know. Ultimately if they can pay, they can play, but I reserve the right to boot them if something about them dries me up, ya know?

 

[Violet Dawn]

With the way some of them talk, I wouldn't be surprised.

(That was a joke)

 

[RahqZee]

There isn't a magical time that makes men or women mature. I get so skeeved out by some camgirls in their early twenties because I feel like they are young teens with how they behave, and that just creeps me out. There are girls who could cam their 18th birthday and be amazing and rock it from such a classy, mature and business woman angle. Everyone is different. If you're 18 you get to be in and/or watch porn, end of story.

I agree. I wouldn't actively try to stop anyone of legal age from watching and/or making porn if that's what they want to do, I just wouldn't necessarily, in all conditions, want them watching me. Same thing with 18 year old cam girls. I bet there are tons out there that are great at their jobs, have a great handle on their business and are really enjoyable to be around. But it's not for me, so I wouldn't watch them. Easy peasy.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

I agree. I wouldn't actively try to stop anyone of legal age from watching and/or making porn if that's what they want to do, I just wouldn't necessarily, in all conditions, want them watching me. Same thing with 18 year old cam girls. I bet there are tons out there that are great at their jobs, have a great handle on their business and are really enjoyable to be around. But it's not for me, so I wouldn't watch them. Easy peasy.

Oh for sure. If you're not comfortable with it then by all means don't let them watch you. It just sounded like some people were saying that they shouldn't be looking at porn at all which is just silly to me

We all have random limits in our head. Just speaking for myself, they don't always make sense but that's fine, they don't have to.

 

[Carmita Bonita]

I honestly don't mind if a member is 18 and in highschool. He's paying for me to entertain him and he is old enough to do that so that makes me happy! He's not just wanking to my tumblr pictures lol. I've had many younger guys in my chatroom (not sure if any were actually still in highschool!) 18-19 be the sweetest, fun guys so I have no gripes about it.

Personally for me though, I'm so glad I didn't get into camming when I was 18. I was super douchey, had radical shitty opinions I thought were fact and was a jerk so I'm glad that isn't documented with my sex industry career because I'd be problematic as hell lol.