Getting/Staying turned on

[HotRod556]

New camguy. I started streaming on a adult dating site . And got a lot of attention 98.7% guy's. I would always chat with them and they would beg to see cock or jacking. I was also new to camgirls. And I love them. And think its the best thing ever. Well after a lot more streaming on dateing site and still only getting one girl out of 30 viewers. Got me thinking I can be cam model. Plus extra money is needed for my camgirls habit. Guys watch me get off. Then off to watch the girls get off. Peace of cake. So far it's not going well. Turns out I can jack and cum when guys are watching as long as I don't chat or anything. Watch porn cum bye guys. Worked great . Now I take to long to get hard. No way I could cum in under 30mins. And has been very awkward. I just can't get turned on. Very hard to get dick up. Then staying up even worst. Idk what to do my head is in it. But cock is not having it. I hope it passes and I can do shows. I'm a horny guy so I didnt think it would be a issue. Any suggestions would be great. Also like to know if it's ok to go to camgirls room while I'm in my room. My #1 favorite camgirl gets me up every time. And thanks to cam sites. Porn is just not doing it. Anyway I'll have to do something just don't know what.

 

[EmiliaSong]

You can totally go to other cammodels' rooms while in your own room. A lot of guys do that on Chaturbate. I'd keep the sound off, though. Just send your favorite model some tips as you go.

As for getting it up and keeping it up, I'd do some research into it. I recently read Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, and though it's aimed at ciswomen, a lot of the same principles apply to male sexuality.

 

[AmiGold]

I have quite a few guys that tip me to watch their cams while they are camming. especially for the cum moment

 

[Ambers Troll]

Cock misbehaving could be performance anxiety, diet, control issues, vascular troubles, hormones, and psychology. Most likely it will return to normal soon enough by itself. Don't pressure yourself and let it return.

You can do similar things to tying off to stay hard, such as using tight underwear, a condom, the tie from a dressing gown, or even a slim neck tie etc. to hold an erection. It will give your viewer something a bit more interesting too.

If you want to perform regularly for an audience, ultimately you will need to control ejaculation. Eventually you can even ejaculate and stay hard. More control in your off cam life will also improve your capacity to perform.
This will take time to learn, so I will let you look up the technique.

Finally try a warming lubricant or a different technique, something that feels a bit different. A good fix for when the cock misbehaves on you.

 

[SaffronBurke]

You can do similar things to tying off to stay hard, such as using tight underwear, a condom, the tie from a dressing gown, or even a slim neck tie etc. to hold an erection.

Or, you know, a cock ring, which is designed for that purpose and less likely to cause damage from being tied too tight.

 

[HotRod556]

You can totally go to other cammodels' rooms while in your own room. A lot of guys do that on Chaturbate. I'd keep the sound off, though. Just send your favorite model some tips as you go.

As for getting it up and keeping it up, I'd do some research into it. I recently read Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, and though it's aimed at ciswomen, a lot of the same principles apply to male sexuality.

Thank you . And I always tip. Even when playing just the tip. Now if only I could figure out how to stay in the horny mode and chat at the same time. Plus it would be great if guy's would work with me a little. You would assume if a gay guy wanted to turn on straight guy. He would avoid the cock sucking and put it in my ass. I know I wouldn't go in gay room to chat about how much I love eating pussy. Anyway the joys of trying new things. I do love the attention. It cracks me up to hear what would be done to me .

Cock misbehaving could be performance anxiety, diet, control issues, vascular troubles, hormones, and psychology. Most likely it will return to normal soon enough by itself. Don't pressure yourself and let it return.

You can do similar things to tying off to stay hard, such as using tight underwear, a condom, the tie from a dressing gown, or even a slim neck tie etc. to hold an erection. It will give your viewer something a bit more interesting too.

If you want to perform regularly for an audience, ultimately you will need to control ejaculation. Eventually you can even ejaculate and stay hard. More control in your off cam life will also improve your capacity to perform.
This will take time to learn, so I will let you look up the technique.

Finally try a warming lubricant or a different technique, something that feels a bit different. A good fix for when the cock misbehaves on you.

Cock misbehaving could be performance anxiety, diet, control issues, vascular troubles, hormones, and psychology. Most likely it will return to normal soon enough by itself. Don't pressure yourself and let it return.

You can do similar things to tying off to stay hard, such as using tight underwear, a condom, the tie from a dressing gown, or even a slim neck tie etc. to hold an erection. It will give your viewer something a bit more interesting too.

If you want to perform regularly for an audience, ultimately you will need to control ejaculation. Eventually you can even ejaculate and stay hard. More control in your off cam life will also improve your capacity to perform.
This will take time to learn, so I will let you look up the technique.

Finally try a warming lubricant or a different technique, something that feels a bit different. A good fix for when the cock misbehaves on you.

Thank you so much. One question. Are you saying when I get hard I can tie it off to stay hard? I've heard something along those lines before. But never tried it. Great advice. Ty I'm sure it has a lot to do with anxiety. And being guys doesn't bother me at all. But also doesn't do anything to get me off. I was so sure of myself. That I could definitely let ppl into my masterbating. Hope I'll get it together soon. I already have more than a few customers. I enjoy chatting with and have took me to pvt. Haven't been able to cum for them yet. Now if they could watch me C2C w/my #1 favorite camgirl. They would love that shit. I shoot to the moon. It 110% her fault that I never want to masterbate alone again . Haha