Finding a cam girl for my unique fetishes

[Sashacurves]

I'm so baffled that so few people seem to be able to do they eyebrow raise! I'd have thought dimples would be the hard one to find, or is it the combination that you're struggling with?

I'm curious, without being too intrusive or personal what do you like girls to do in these shows? What makes a girl "incredible" vs "ok" at it? I can do the eyebrows but don't have dimples, I'm just interested to learn about a new fetish!

 

[Kultivater]

I'm so baffled that so few people seem to be able to do they eyebrow raise! I'd have thought dimples would be the hard one to find, or is it the combination that you're struggling with?

I'm curious, without being too intrusive or personal what do you like girls to do in these shows? What makes a girl "incredible" vs "ok" at it? I can do the eyebrows but don't have dimples, I'm just interested to learn about a new fetish!

That's a fair question indeed. It's not only about whether they can do it or not, and no, I don't need them to have both fetishes(that.... that's just fucking nonexistent. I'd LOVE it, but in 21 years I've found it only 1 time that I can think of, and she only had small dimples, and no longer works on cam sites). I mentioned a unique kind of humiliation that goes along with the eyebrow fetish. It's difficult to explain, and frankly, I'm EXTREMELY shy about it, so I'd really prefer not to talk about it here, if that's ok with you. Maybe in a private message? What I'll say here is that the humiliation side may actually be even more unique than the eyebrow portion of it, so finding someone with that ability who says the right things is just... ugh... impossible. PM me if you'd like for me to explain it to you. If you can do that, I'd love to consider you.

 

[Kultivater]

@Marceline I'll tell you what: I'll agree to a predetermined tip amount to enable us to talk about it in a PM in your room, and for you to show me how it looks when you do it. After that, I'll make a decision about whether to purchase your show . Is that reasonable?

 

[Brit]

Look at my avatar. My eyebrow is slightly raised. It can go even higher. Now tip me.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I've been doing this since I was 17, which was 21 years ago. I promise you, I've thoroughly searched the internet. It's pretty much a guarantee that you won't find my fetishes on recording sites. My fetishes don't exist.

Okay, when I saw the title of this thread, I thought you were gonna say that you're looking for a model to make her pussy sing the ABCs or something.....

I find it hard to believe that you're unable to find a model to satisfy your "Face dimples/one eyebrow raised" fetish. I don't consider those things difficult at all to find. You need to make it clear to models that you've got tokens that you're ready to spend on them right now. None of this "Let's go on Skype/PayPal?" nonsense either. Let her know you're ready to spend on her right now on this cam site. Are you sure that you've been inquiring about it politely, and not doing anything to piss off the models?

I think you only think it's uncommon to find, because you just haven't seen other members asking for it, and models don't have this sort of thing listed on their tip menu. Lol. But just like with anything else, just because it's not on the tip menu...and not in a model's profile or hashtags doesn't mean it won't be done. Ask politely. Tip notes never hurt either. They're so much better than a member just demanding "Lemme see u raise one eyebrow for me, ma."

 

[Kultivater]

Okay, when I saw the title of this thread, I thought you were gonna say that you're looking for a model to make her pussy sing the ABCs or something.....

I find it hard to believe that you're unable to find a model to satisfy your "Face dimples/one eyebrow raised" fetish. I don't consider those things difficult at all to find. You need to make it clear to models that you've got tokens that you're ready to spend on them right now. None of this "Let's go on Skype/PayPal?" nonsense either. Let her know you're ready to spend on her right now on this cam site. Are you sure that you've been inquiring about it politely, and not doing anything to piss off the models?

I think you only think it's uncommon to find, because you just haven't seen other members asking for it, and models don't have this sort of thing listed on their tip menu. Lol. But just like with anything else, just because it's not on the tip menu...and not in a model's profile or hashtags doesn't mean it won't be done. Ask politely. Tip notes never hurt either. They're so much better than a member just demanding "Lemme see u raise one eyebrow for me, ma."

I literally spend hours several times per week asking random models if they can do it, and seeing if they answer my questions in a way that tells me they can satisfy the other side of it(a very unique sort of humiliation). Trust me, I've been doing this for 21 years. It's very rare. I'm sorry if I was unclear about what I'm searching for. I can understand your confusion if I was. I'll explain it to you in a PM if you'd like.

 

[Kultivater]

Look at my avatar. My eyebrow is slightly raised. It can go even higher. Now tip me.

Haha. I wish it worked that way, because it would make my life as a pervert so much easier. Unfortunately, pictures don't so much do it for me. It goes way deeper than that. But, since you can do it, would you like to talk about what I DO like in a PM? Maybe you're someone I'm looking for .

 

[Sashacurves]

I literally spend hours several times per week asking random models if they can do it, and seeing if they answer my questions in a way that tells me they can satisfy the other side of it(a very unique sort of humiliation). Trust me, I've been doing this for 21 years. It's very rare. I'm sorry if I was unclear about what I'm searching for. I can understand your confusion if I was. I'll explain it to you in a PM if you'd like.

I think it's all making sense now - it's not the ability to raise the eyebrow, it's the unique humiliation aspect that makes it hard to find what you're looking for?

 

[Kultivater]

I think it's all making sense now - it's not the ability to raise the eyebrow, it's the unique humiliation aspect that makes it hard to find what you're looking for?

That's the biggest part of why it's difficult, yes. Though, finding someone who can raise 1 eyebrow does add to the difficulty. I explained it all to you in the PM I just sent you .

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Being unwilling or unable to explain what you are looking for in a straightforward, concise manner is surely a big part of why it's taking 84 years to find someone to do it for you. Telling performers you can only discuss it in PM (expecting one on one private attention) is not helping.

 

[Kultivater]

Being unwilling or unable to explain what you are looking for in a straightforward, concise manner is surely a big part of why it's taking 84 years to find someone to do it for you. Telling performers you can only discuss it in PM (expecting one on one private attention) is not helping.

I've had a couple PM me already, but I understand what you're saying. Unfortunately, it's something I am very shy about, so I don't wish to explain that side of my fetish publicly. I'm a very sexually unique person, and I understand first hand how frustrating it is. If you'd rather not deal with it, I understand you. I wish I could change it.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

So shy that you'll discuss it with anyone who messages you lol make it make sense.

 

[Kultivater]

I was about to DM you, but then I checked your profile and posts you made before and

Maybe you would have more luck if you weren't offending the models

also, paying for their services might help to get them actually fullfill your requests.

https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/things-that-turn-me-off-and-or-annoy-me.26229/ here's the full thread if anyone's interested. I didn't read the whole thread, just glanced at the first and last messages.

Granted, the thread is from 6 years ago, it's a long time to evolve, so maybe you've learned to respect "porn people" and pay for us fulfilling your requests OP. If that's the case I would be happy to raise my eyebrows for you one by one with my camera on. Until that's confirmed by you I'll stick to raising both of my eyebrows at the same time while reading what you posted in the past.

Fair enough. Thanks for your reply.

 

[Kultivater]

So shy that you'll discuss it with anyone who messages you lol make it make sense.

It's alright if you don't understand. I don't expect you to. As I said, I'm unique.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I'm sorry if I was unclear about what I'm searching for. I can understand your confusion if I was. I'll explain it to you in a PM if you'd like.

No, thanks. I’m not interested in taking this conversation to a PM on here.

 

[Ich Bin]

No, thanks. I’m not interested in taking this conversation to a PM on here.

Now there's a smart lady!

 

[Kultivater]

No, thanks. I’m not interested in taking this conversation to a PM on here.

Fair enough. Have a good day.

 

[Brit]

Haha. I wish it worked that way, because it would make my life as a pervert so much easier. Unfortunately, pictures don't so much do it for me. It goes way deeper than that. But, since you can do it, would you like to talk about what I DO like in a PM? Maybe you're someone I'm looking for .

Sure, you can chat with me on Niteflirt and/or sub to me on Fansly. I don't DM for free

 

[Kultivater]

Sure, you can chat with me on Niteflirt and/or sub to me on Fansly. I don't DM for free

Sure. I'm not familiar with those sites, but I'll look for you. Would you mind sending me a link to your profile/room so I can find you?

 

[Brit]

Sure. I'm not familiar with those sites, but I'll look for you. Would you mind sending me a link to your profile/room so I can find you?

Britney Brink (8 links)

All my links in one place.

allmylinks.com

 

[Kultivater]

Britney Brink (8 links)

All my links in one place.

allmylinks.com

I didn't see either of those 2 sites on the link you just gave me, but I did see your CB link, so I went there and followed you. Is it ok to do it there? If so, I'll look for you to be online .

 

[Sashacurves]

@Marceline I'll tell you what: I'll agree to a predetermined tip amount to enable us to talk about it in a PM in your room, and for you to show me how it looks when you do it. After that, I'll make a decision about whether to purchase your show . Is that reasonable?

For those wondering whether he's wasting your time, to his credit, Kultivater has just tipped me for mine

 

[Kultivater]

For those wondering whether he's wasting your time, to his credit, Kultivater has just tipped me for mine

Thanks!

 

[AudriTwo]

well its nice to see that you are no longer expecting models to freely perform your fetish/action to see if you are into it. grats on no longer being a douche canoe!

 

[Kultivater]

well its nice to see that you are no longer expecting models to freely perform your fetish/action. grats on no longer being a douche canoe!

I don't really remember much of the things I said in that old argument, but I know I've never expected to fap for free. Free chat, where I ask questions so I can decide whether I want to pay for someone or not, is what I expect, if indeed free chat is offered. But I have never expected someone to do things for me for free, and would never ask for it. My fetishes are unique, so what most likely happened is someone misunderstood my expectations.

 

[Kultivater]

well its nice to see that you are no longer expecting models to freely perform your fetish/action to see if you are into it. grats on no longer being a douche canoe!

To go into a bit more detail: As I've explained here, finding models able to perform my fetishes is extremely difficult to do. Honestly, if I paid every model I ever asked about it, I'd end up spending $1000s before ever getting what I'm looking for. I understand that models have to assume I'm a freeloader until I prove otherwise. Trust me, I fully understand the need for that. I just hope you guys can also understand me and where I'm coming from. That's why I like sites like CB, because they provide a way for the model to see if I've spent tokens recently. Usually, my name is dark purple(the color when you've spent over 1000 tokens in the past 2 weeks). It's not right now, but that's because I just had to spend $2000 fixing my car(I drive a BMW, so it's expensive). But, I'm back to a decent financial status, so it'll be that color again in no time. Anyway, that feature from CB lets a model know I'm not a freeloader without me having to actually spend money in order to prove it. I would therefore expect that she'd be willing to prove her side(answer some questions, and show me proof that she can stimulate me) before asking me to pay her for a show. I believe that's very reasonable to expect.

 

[AudriTwo]

I don't really remember much of the things I said in that old argument, but I know I've never expected to fap for free. Free chat, where I ask questions so I can decide whether I want to pay for someone or not, is what I expect, if indeed free chat is offered. But I have never expected someone to do things for me for free, and would never ask for it. My fetishes are unique, so what most likely happened is someone misunderstood my expectations.

in your last thread, you said:

On a final note: Some of the models ask for tips for ridiculous things. The eyebrow raise for example. Asking someone to pay you to see something on your face is absolutely ridiculous, and I'm sure pretty much 100% of the members, and likely a good chunk of the models on most sites, would agree with me on that.

so at 32 you were expecting models to prove that they can perform your fetish to your liking and thought it was ridicoulus they asked for payment to do your request. very douche canoe behavior. people constantly ask us to do odd specific requests that maybe their fetish or a troll. it's a way to see if you are actually serious and not trying to get a free wank.

 

[Kultivater]

in your last thread, you said:


so at 32 you were expecting models to prove that they can perform your fetish to your liking and thought it was ridicoulus they asked for payment to do your request. you were requesting to see your fetish. very douche canoe behavior. dont think im misunderstanding.

Alright, yeah, that was definitely wrong of me to say. I don't even remember that. Hm. I wanna say I was talking about if I asked them to prove that they can raise 1 eyebrow(models have lied to me before), but it doesn't look like that's what I meant. Interesting. Yeah, I definitely do not agree with that.

 

[Kultivater]

in your last thread, you said:


so at 32 you were expecting models to prove that they can perform your fetish to your liking and thought it was ridicoulus they asked for payment to do your request. very douche canoe behavior. people constantly ask us to do odd specific requests that maybe their fetish or a troll. it's a way to see if you are actually serious and not trying to get a free wank.

By the way, it's like I said earlier: I fully understand the need for models to assume I'm a freeloader until I prove that I'm not. But that's why I use Chaturbate, because the site colors my name according to how much I've spent in the past 2 weeks, so models can know I'm not a freeloader without me having to prove it with a tip. That makes things a lot easier on both of us, because it means I don't have to spend money unless I'm getting what I want, and it means she's not giving freeloaders free faps.

 

[AudriTwo]

By the way, it's like I said earlier: I fully understand the need for models to assume I'm a freeloader until I prove that I'm not. But that's why I use Chaturbate, because the site colors my name according to how much I've spent in the past 2 weeks, so models can know I'm not a freeloader without me having to prove it with a tip. That makes things a lot easier on both of us, because it means I don't have to spend money unless I'm getting what I want, and it means she's not giving freeloaders free faps.

I get your point, but most of us wont believe it until we see it. I work a site that rates members who spend in your room, and had high numbers freeload. Just because you've spent money doesn't mean you are going to continue. Money talks.