I describe the dull love/ passion experience of women compared to men and everyone thinks I am referring to sex... interesting. Women do like sex as much as men... I can agree with that. That most of you missed my point was fine, I made it and it is done.
@IsabellaSnow thanks for this response, you are a lovely woman with a good heart. Not quite sure that your impression of me was correct, you probably shouldn't have invited me to join you when you were here if you were concerned about your safety in regard to me if you were concerned.
The someone hurt me shaming argument is pretty off in my case, the mental instability is way off, though I will admit to being gas-lighted a few times when I was vulnerable and healing. I have been traumatized but have been well for many years now, no ill after effects other than the lost time in healing, but that is normal.
I don't hate women or think of them as evil, I generally think of women in my daily life as attention seeking children in terms of some behaviour, the rest of their behaviour being adult. I love talking to women about statistics, fashion, sex, etiquette, politics and social interaction as most are great companions when it comes to such things, luckily this can all be done outside of romantic relationships, such as a forum like this. Things that really matter such as teaching your child how to emotionally regulate, using emotion to empower you, valuing what is important in life, and listening to your body, I would generally find a man to talk with.
You are right about my thinking in that it is pretty atypical; I think in multiple streams at the same time, like a computer with a multiple cores. Being an INFJ also means much of this is based on empathy with others so it has emotional as well as logical streams. Most people I meet are both confused and fascinated by me and remain so because they aren't interested in seeing past that. For instance most people are shocked when I do something really physical and can't see where that comes from.
I am more attached to my bag than a stranger or someone I know very little perhaps, so maybe this is where you are getting these ideas from, but I am definitely more attached to those in my life, male and female than any material item.
Are those you are attached to more like your bag than you care to acknowledge... this was the point I was hinting at, but not wanting to hurt anyone with.
I actually don't want to convert anyone to my view, my initial topic question (this was my topic after all...my question), was for confirmed singles on how they enjoy being single and celebrate their freedom. A fair topic for a man going his own way.
Having said all of this I know where you are coming from and what you are trying to say...thanks for the concern. It's funny talking with this subject to women close to understanding it; you don't want them to be 'red pilled' for the pain and self reflection it will cause them, I think this is why I haven't discussed this beyond my status of going my own way with my sister. I'd rather such women keep enjoying life (ride their horse), it's actually pretty masochistic and unhealthy to still keep the old protective male roles as most women don't deserve them especially now that they have no respect for them.
I do wish women had been brave enough to choose emancipation on the 80's rather than to have split feminism in two. Now we have inter-sectional (SJW) feminism vs anti-feminism/ traditionalism (was 'lipstick feminism' in the early 90's) maintaining the status quo of the past just as men were about to be freed from our old roles. Personally I am on the inter-sectional side of feminism, I think it is the way to go for women and leads to a much better result for men due to many more men opting out of romantic relationships rather than most in romantic relationships under traditionalism. This should lead to less disposability for men, lower suicide rates, less jail time (i.e. less violence), and less work deaths except in involved men or men chasing involvement/ love.
