Explain my story

[Bigjetplane]

Hi everyone
I like to let you know my story...
On july i knew a cam model we spent some good time togheter till i went on holyday and i left her my mail.. She wrote me and i was very happy and when i came back home i went online for her days after days.
Some time later she gave me her mobile number and we talked togheter till i went to met her.
It was amazing!!! It was a dream.
We continue to talking till 15 days ago when she said me she has problem and from that time i can't find her online or on phone.
I text to her im worry about it but she didn't answer...
Im really worry about her
Thx for reading

 

[CoffeeKnight]

Unfortunately there isn't much that can be done. It is just one of the perils of online friendships. Not just model/member but all online friendships. There are people I've played video games with online that just dropped off the radar one day and there is no real way to find them or make sure they are okay. Sadly it is just something that comes with living part of your life on the internet.

People can go offline for any number of reasons. In your case it's only been two weeks, and over the holidays at that, so I wouldn't assume the worst case. Maybe family has gotten in the way or she just needed to take some time for herself and unplug.

Best thing you can do has already been done and that is leave her a message saying you hope she is okay.

 

[Bigjetplane]

I did that but she didn't answer me that's i don't understand...

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Sounds like she is done with the cam world.

 

[MarinaThyme]

Are you saying you had a relationship or just a friendship?

If it's just a friendly business relationship to her and something more to you, maybe she blocked you? She doesn't owe you anything, no offense. If things got too overwhelming, she has every right to come and go from the industry how or when she wants with little to no warning. She's a human. Let her be a human. If she's busy, that's fine. She doesn't need to keep you up to date 24/7 with her every move in life. Give her some space. She'll probably be back around sooner or later.

My advice probably sounds harsh, but I'm just trying to give some perspective from a model's point of view.

 

[CoffeeKnight]

Are you saying you had a relationship or just a friendship?

If it's just a friendly business relationship to her and something more to you, maybe she blocked you? She doesn't owe you anything, no offense. If things got too overwhelming, she has every right to come and go from the industry how or when she wants with little to no warning. She's a human. Let her be a human. If she's busy, that's fine. She doesn't need to keep you up to date 24/7 with her every move in life. Give her some space. She'll probably be back around sooner or later.

My advice probably sounds harsh, but I'm just trying to give some perspective from a model's point of view.

You are absolutely right. I hope the OP takes that to heart. I get that it can be difficult when you are on his side of it but things happen. Life happens. If you really want to be friends with someone then sometimes the friendliest thing you can do it say you'll be there for them and then give them all the space they need.

 

[Bigjetplane]

I'll give her all the spaces or all the times she needs I'm just worried about her...
a friendship or relationship it doesn't matter maybe for me it is just a friendship and for her it's much more

 

[CoffeeKnight]

I'll give her all the spaces or all the times she needs I'm just worried about her...
a friendship or relationship it doesn't matter maybe for me it is just a friendship and for her it's much more

I understand, man. I don't think there is anything more you can do. You messaged her saying you were worried about her so the ball is in her court. Good luck. I hope things work out.

 

[AudriTwo]

I'll give her all the spaces or all the times she needs I'm just worried about her...
a friendship or relationship it doesn't matter maybe for me it is just a friendship and for her it's much more

best thing to do is space. i know personally for me it's been hard trying to be social when im not working. lately, all my sm mail goes unchecked and i rarely look at my dms anymore on twitter. i have had customers of mine push me to tell them what is wrong after briefly mentioning im dealing with personal bullshit on twitter. even when i publicly stated stop asking me what's wrong. it makes ignoring them even easier because they aren't respecting my privacy or boundaries i set in place. i really don't want to hear from the men who masturbate to me, "i'm here if you want to talk." that isn't our relationship and you aren't the person i want to be sharing my shit with. you job is to jerk off to me.

man i got harsh too. op give her space, don't pressure her to tell you what's wrong. that is not your place.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

best thing to do is space. i know personally for me it's been hard trying to be social when im not working. lately, all my sm mail goes unchecked and i rarely look at my dms anymore on twitter. i have had customers of mine push me to tell them what is wrong after briefly mentioning im dealing with personal bullshit on twitter. even when i publicly stated stop asking me what's wrong. it makes ignoring them even easier because they aren't respecting my privacy or boundaries i set in place. i really don't want to hear from the men who masturbate to me, "i'm here if you want to talk." that isn't our relationship and you aren't the person i want to be sharing my shit with. you job is to jerk off to me.

man i got harsh too. op give her space, don't pressure her to tell you what's wrong. that is not your place.

Hope things turn around, and it gets better for you.

you job is to jerk off to me.

Sorry, I got a chuckle out of that for some reason.

 

[n_i_c_u]

man i got harsh too. op give her space, don't pressure her to tell you what's wrong. that is not your place.

I tried to do the "what is wrong" thing with a few models (that is why I hate social media apps like viber or twitter or whatever--it makes it too easy to say dumb stuff), and realized that I was waaaaay over my head in trying to communicate. I think there was actually nothing I could say that could make situation better. It was horrible to realize that she didn't need my opinion or that it would even make any sense. Kind of embarrassing, actually, to be so useless in a time of consternation.

It is so much better when I don't get any snapchat, viber, whatsapp, kik messages from models asking me "how are you?" as that might actually get me at a weak time where I might tell you (and that is the last thing I really want as it makes me look a certain way).

 

[Bigjetplane]

What the hell u said?
She told me i think everything's about her life and i told her "im always here"
I wrote we met we spent time together it was amazing for me and her or she stop after our time together!!! Or if she want she doesn't came to met me!!! That's i don't understand!!!

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Just chill out. It's not about you understanding, it's about accepting. Let her be. She doesn't owe you time, attention, or an explanation. Obsessing over the situation will certainly only make it harder to endure. But it's definitely not going to make her any more likely to interact with you.

 

[CoffeeKnight]

Obsessing over the situation will certainly only make it harder to endure. But it's definitely not going to make her any more likely to interact with you.

This 1000%

Concern for someone you care about is one thing, OP, but obsessing is something else entirely.

 

[Bigjetplane]

Omg im not obsessed
Maybe u don't know what happened....
I gave her space ill give her space i want only to know that everything is ok
One message just "ok" and I'm good!!!

She told me something about her that's why i hope everything is okay

 

[Deleted member 37064]

Omg im not obsessed
Maybe u don't know what happened....
I gave her space ill give her space i want only to know that everything is ok
One message just "ok" and I'm good!!!

She told me something about her that's why i hope everything is okay

Don't know what to say other than what someone else mentioned aove: It's a part of the modern life and interacting with people, especially on the internet. Sometimes people come and go, and we don't have a say in the matter. That's the difficult part is that sometimes, it just seems like they up and vanish. There's a whole thread about cam models who are no longer in the business.

If there's legitimately something/someone threatening her, then there's cause for concern. But, the difficult part is if you don't know specific info, it's going to be very difficult to somehow try and reach out more than you have. Hopefully she's okay, and it's nother more than just the holiday season keeping her busy and out of touch.

 

[yummybrownfox]

 

[a_haze420]

Ok dude but posting here over and over isnt gonna get her to message you. You're gonna have to figure out a way to get over it as we can't make her message you.

 

[AudriTwo]

Omg im not obsessed
Maybe u don't know what happened....
I gave her space ill give her space i want only to know that everything is ok
One message just "ok" and I'm good!!!

She told me something about her that's why i hope everything is okay

but she doesn't owe you an ok... you have to either accepting it, or you start obsessing over it where you are at now. if you weren't, you wouldn't be here asking for advice and help. we can't tell you how to make a stranger talk to you who clearly is showing signs of not wanting to. we can't help you other than to tell you to move on and give her that space. maybe she'll come back. maybe she won't. maybe when she comes back she might not let you know. we also don't know her. and please don't share personal details about her.

 

[Bigjetplane]

but she doesn't owe you an ok... you have to either accepting it, or you start obsessing over it where you are at now. if you weren't, you wouldn't be here asking for advice and help. we can't tell you how to make a stranger talk to you who clearly is showing signs of not wanting to. we can't help you other than to tell you to move on and give her that space. maybe she'll come back. maybe she won't. maybe when she comes back she might not let you know. we also don't know her. and please don't share personal details about her.

Wait..
I think there is a misunderstanding...
I came here day's ago and found post about people who reach an advice from cam girl about what to do...
I created my account and shared here my experience not for know why she don't want answers me but to tell someone the truth about my story.
The post is "explain my story" and not "i need help" or "pls help me"
It isn't easy to tell at your friends or family all about your life...
We can have a great discussion about it and i also take your advice about it and say thx very much
And don't worry i never say something personal

Happy new year

 

[maskpull]

Where is your model from?

 

[AudriTwo]

Wait..
I think there is a misunderstanding...
I came here day's ago and found post about people who reach an advice from cam girl about what to do...
I created my account and shared here my experience not for know why she don't want answers me but to tell someone the truth about my story.
The post is "explain my story" and not "i need help" or "pls help me"
It isn't easy to tell at your friends or family all about your life...
We can have a great discussion about it and i also take your advice about it and say thx very much
And don't worry i never say something personal

Happy new year

do forgive me, but the title of your thread is "explain my story" im not sure if english is your first language, but that seems like you wanted us to explain to you what happened. but you did come here for our help, as in you wanted us to give you a reason. we can't give you an exact one but other than to advise you to back off and let her be.

i only said please don't say anything personal because these threads sometimes have a formula. OP is vague at first. then when the thread isn't going his exact way, he reveals private information that is totally irrelevant. thank you for not. that is very respectable of you.

 

[Bigjetplane]

do forgive me, but the title of your thread is "explain my story" im not sure if english is your first language, but that seems like you wanted us to explain to you what happened. but you did come here for our help, as in you wanted us to give you a reason. we can't give you an exact one but other than to advise you to back off and let her be.

i only said please don't say anything personal because these threads sometimes have a formula. OP is vague at first. then when the thread isn't going his exact way, he reveals private information that is totally irrelevant. thank you for not. that is very respectable of you.

Yes its just to let you know what happened to me without problems

And don't worry about it

 

[MarinaThyme]

Yes its just to let you know what happened to me without problems

And don't worry about it

Did you mean to say this?
"Let me explain my story."

 

[Deleted member 43650]

Hi everyone
I like to let you know my story...
On july i knew a cam model we spent some good time togheter till i went on holyday and i left her my mail.. She wrote me and i was very happy and when i came back home i went online for her days after days.
Some time later she gave me her mobile number and we talked togheter till i went to met her.
It was amazing!!! It was a dream.
We continue to talking till 15 days ago when she said me she has problem and from that time i can't find her online or on phone.
I text to her im worry about it but she didn't answer...
Im really worry about her
Thx for reading

I really recommend simply dropping it. If I had to guess, she has cut off contact - however unfortunate that may be, you have to respect that decision. To boot, though, I don't advocate models meeting with their fans/viewers IRL under any circumstances - this goes both ways; were I a viewer, I wouldn't meet up with a model. Camming is a virtual industry and the relationships therein should remain virtual.