Estranged father blackmailing me rant

[RavishMeAlice]

My sperm donor is emailing me, under a very poorly concealed secret indentity, that he will send my mother and brother my b/g videos if I don’t take them off of mfc or MV. Apparently he doesn’t like seeing me evolving into a porn actress. He’s never been a father figure and is the worse human being I have ever had the displeasure of meeting.

My response to him was simply,
Hi dad,
You can’t tell me what to do.

Usually I like to keep these things private, but I don’t have anyone who could understand to vent to. Keeping it all in makes me want to explode. I hate him so much.

 

[BiancaBaker]

This is why I told my family what I did, You may want to just tell your mom and brother TBH. Even if he doesn't tell them someone eventually will. I wanted it to come out of my mouth and not some random person. My sister disowned me and I disowned 2 cousins over my job. Be prepared. The rest of my family is amazing, supportive and cheers me on. I waited 3 years for my income to keep increasing to tell them because I wanted to be established financially and as a producer and this made me feel better about coming out. No other job would I make this income and Im not doing anything illegal or hurting myself in any manor. I think honesty is the best policy.

 

[RavishMeAlice]

This is why I told my family what I did, You may want to just tell your mom and brother TBH. Even if he doesn't tell them someone eventually will. I wanted it to come out of my mouth and not some random person. My sister disowned me and I disowned 2 cousins over my job. Be prepared. The rest of my family is amazing, supportive and cheers me on. I waited 3 years for my income to keep increasing to tell them because I wanted to be established financially and as a producer and this made me feel better about coming out. No other job would I make this income and Im not doing anything illegal or hurting myself in any manor. I think honesty is the best policy.

Yes you’re right. My brother wouldn’t care, but my mom is deeply conservative. She would never understand, but she would still love me :/
Good thing I have such a small family.
Sorry to hear you had lose some family relationships over your work

 

[BiancaBaker]

Yes you’re right. My brother wouldn’t care, but my mom is deeply conservative. She would never understand, but she would still love me :/
Good thing I have such a small family.
Sorry to hear you had lose some family relationships over your work

My sister is super conservative I knew she was going to disown me. I honestly didn't care because I love my job and I'm really great at it. I've been doing this for 6 years full time in March so I'm great at what I do as well. I wouldn't want to do anything else and my actual family is super proud of me and what I have accomplished. I have built this from nothing. I have also met some amazing ladies who I consider family.

 

[JickyJuly]

My mom threatened to do this to me as well. I agree with Bianca. Get ahead of it. I just thought about which people I would be sad if she told and told them myself without details about my work. Luckily, for me, that was just my Dad and Grams. Pretty painless.

 

[RavishMeAlice]

My sister is super conservative I knew she was going to disown me. I honestly didn't care because I love my job and I'm really great at it. I've been doing this for 6 years full time in March so I'm great at what I do as well. I wouldn't want to do anything else and my actual family is super proud of me and what I have accomplished. I have built this from nothing. I have also met some amazing ladies who I consider family.

I feel you girl! I feel successful in what I do too. Hopefully, my mom will be understanding as I use all my earnings for school and stuff. First and foremost, she's all about education and my future.

 

[RavishMeAlice]

My mom threatened to do this to me as well. I agree with Bianca. Get ahead of it. I just thought about which people I would be sad if she told and told them myself without details about my work. Luckily, for me, that was just my Dad and Grams. Pretty painless.

it comforts me that I'm not alone in this situation. did your mom end up saying anything to your family? or did she see the point moot after you told your family first?

 

[AudriTwo]

Mine weren't too happy, but I still have a few members who accept me and don't judge me.

It maybe Rocky for the first couple months, but it gets better. You feel as if you are free to be you, and now you have no limitations. Btw love your response.

 

[OldHippy]

Be proud of yourself, respect yourself and no one will have any power over you. In the end people can only hurt us as much as we let them.

BTW what was the sperm donor doing on MV and MFC? Was he just researching for science?

 

[Emberblaze]

Your

Be proud of yourself, respect yourself and no one will have any power over you. In the end people can only hurt us as much as we let them.

BTW what was the sperm donor doing on MV and MFC? Was he just researching for science?

Right? I would tell him to get the fuck off his high horse because even if someone else told him she was there I'm sure he watches porn too.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

Hugs and also...

YOU GO GIRL.