Doing similar things in your real life to what you do on cam.

[Ambers Troll]

Just saw a preview on a documentary about porn stars. A comment that they don't tend to do the same things in their personal life.

I know a few models cam, because their partner isn't quite into the same fetishes they are. Was curious to what extent models here do similar things in their personal life to on cam or is it completely different sex acts?
I am sure they feel different if they are similar, but was curious to what extent your camming is true role play compared to real fetishes/ tastes you act out in your life off cam?

 

[Tilly]

One thing that differs greatly with live streaming of and sort and filming porn is the fact that from day to day and minute to minute you could do whatever you wish. Sure, I might be folding laundry when it's slow on cam, but that doesn't mean I don't cater to someone who wants to do a foot fetish pvt. I try to be myself on cam and I don't push my boundaries much outside of what I'm normally comfortable doing in my personal life as far as sexytime stuff goes. I liked what you said; "I know a few models cam, because their partner isn't quite into the same fetishes they are." I had never really thought of that before. I'm excited to see where this topic goes.

 

[EspiKvlt]

Considering I'm graysexual and very rarely into sexual acts, yeah, my porn life and my sex life are so separate it's not even funny lmao

 

[Guy]

Considering I'm graysexual and very rarely into sexual acts, yeah, my porn life and my sex life are so separate it's not even funny lmao

What's graysexual?

 

[EspiKvlt]

what's google

 

[Empress Mika]

I myself keep the two totally separate. For me personally, I like intimacy to remain just between me and my partner that isn't really otherwise shared anywhere else.

Femdom works so well for me because, well, it's amusing for me. It is not at all something that gets me all "hot and bothered" so to speak and thus there is a sexual detachment there for sure. It's fantastic for me!

 

[Picnic]

Considering I'm graysexual and very rarely into sexual acts, yeah, my porn life and my sex life are so separate it's not even funny lmao

I had never heard this term before and just googled it after reading your post. I wanted to say thanks for bringing it to my attention. The term really resonates with me right now!

 

[sagereign]

I try to be as realistic as possible, but it's way different doing sexual things for some random stranger through a computer vs a person right next to you that you've spent a long time caring for. That makes it easier for me to do things I normally wouldn't, like humiliation or being dominating or submissive or roleplay or whatever. It's sort of experimenting for me because I'm into it but I've never had the guts to do in person. It's fun albeit tiring. So, I guess how "real" I am depends on what show you're asking for lol

 

[bobbicruz]

I prefer to be dominant in my work life, in fact I think I do it better, because I kind of am a natural cold bitch... but in my personal sex life I am 100% submissive.

 

[Kinky_Casey]

When I cam...

• I get to spend a lot more time warming up and getting horny
• It's all about me and I can do whatever I want to get off and do it for as long as I want
• I can use super fun toys
• I get to talk about fantasies and sometimes I get members that really turn me on with dirty talk

In real life...

• We usually only take a few minutes to warm up, I think I would like more foreplay but it's hard for me to ask.
• I'm with someone who is much more vanilla than me right now, so we don't use toys and he doesn't really dirty talk. He hasn't even seen my toy collection (except for my vibrator, I need that to cum).
• I get a different experience than if I fucked myself. Sex in real life is hard pounding, rough, super intense. On cam I can go slow and I like both, so it's nice to have "sensual me time" and "crazy fast rough us time"
• I am still submissive in real life, I absolutely love doing things for him.

 

[SinD Je T'aime]

Considering I'm graysexual and very rarely into sexual acts, yeah, my porn life and my sex life are so separate it's not even funny lmao

I'm Demisexual.....along the same lines.

 

[SinD Je T'aime]

anyone interested in understanding Asexuality, greysexual and demisexual, they all fall under the "Ace umbrella". Here is an article that can clarify it, there's tons of info out there if you do a google search.

http://www.asexualityarchive.com/under-the-ace-umbrella/

 

[AnneDVille]

I like sex with the lights off and under the blanket. It sounds weird bit it's not for me.

I do stuff on cam with huge bright lights on me constantly and in complete control of how my body looks. So in real life it's more about 'feeling' than 'seeing'.

 

[SatanJonez]

I like sex with the lights off and under the blanket. It sounds weird bit it's not for me.

I do stuff on cam with huge bright lights on me constantly and in complete control of how my body looks. So in real life it's more about 'feeling' than 'seeing'.

I relate to this a lot. Also, mistakes/awkward moments are so much easier (and often times just funny) for me in real life. On cam mistakes make me panic first and laugh later.

Also on cam I get to explore my masochistic side because my spouse isn't into pain or impact play at all. I also get to play dress up almost every week which is one of my favorite things about camming that I don't get to do in my normal life.

 

[MajesticMelody]

On cam I am more of a dominant. In real life I'm sub. I do not get turned on from domming a man but it is fun to do on cam. I get to step out of character. When it comes to sex with women, I imagine I would enjoy to be more of the dominant though.

My Alone Masturbation is a little different. I like to really please myself and build and edge for nearly an hour. I cum rainbows and butterflies when Im alone. It's pretty intense.

I find it extremely difficult to impossible to reach climax in real life sex with a man. Always. Idk why. But although I usually don't orgasm, I enjoy the act itself. But it's weird, I almost never get the pulsating horny feeling I get from watching porn and touching myself.

 

[VeronicaChaos]

When I start dating someone, they are usually curious if I'm gonna bring out puppets in the bedroom. I can't tell if they're happy or dissapointed that what I want to do is much weirder than that.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

I am literally polar opposites. What I do online is enjoyable and authentic in that aspect, but it doesn't get me off by any means. What I actually do and enjoy in bed requires vulnerability and that's something I wouldn't dream of sharing with site members or clip buyers.

 

[sagereign]

in real life it's more about 'feeling' than 'seeing'.

Yes, this. I rarely ever worry about how I look irl after I'm already dressed for it, but on cam it's my number one priority

 

[Kitcatt]

I dom on cam and in my sex life my reaction to me being a dom is "blech, that sounds too much like work". Its weird because I'm totally open to things but if I catch a wiff of something work-ish I just want to role my eyes. For instance, don't make me tell a story or dirty talk during sex....blech.