Does your significant other watch porn?

[Guy]

Does your significant other watch porn?

 

[Rose]

Yup

 

[SoTxBob]

IMHO, watching porn, at least in this electronic age if instant free access everywhere, is a lot like masturbation...... you have those that freely admit to it, and those folks that lie about it.

 

[NerdieBirdie]

Of course, both with and without me.

 

[alli]

Yep, mostly with me but sometimes without.

 

[Amelia Liddell]

yes! tbh i watch more porn than he does, i'm a big porn fan
but yes we watch together a lot, and separately too

 

[SatanJonez]

Yup. I think I watch more often than he does though.

 

[SylviaDay]

I guess I'm the odd (wo)man out! Not really a surprise considering which forum I'm on haha and since so many people are literally *obsessed* with porn now that it's endlessly available. I've found porn is something people are incredibly defensive about and they refuse to believe their habits could be negatively affecting them, so they're quick to judge or write off any conflicting views. I can count the number of times I've watched porn on one hand, but my boyfriend of 7 years had a pretty average experience with it - watched it whenever he could as a teenager, less and less after he met me until he'd watch it about once a month. Now it's been close to a year since the last time he watched it and he speaks really powerfully about his feelings and the effects he's had from it. He realized he was mindlessly channeling his sexual energy into something intangible and otherwise meaningless to him, when now he saves it all for me. We're in a lucky situation, no doubt, having an incredibly healthy sex life for 7 years. I don't think watching porn is a 'bad' thing or creates issues in everyone who watches it's lives, but I do think it's a distraction.

 

[MonkeyButt]

Nope, he does not.

 

[RikkiLust]

Not when I'm around but he does. Between the two of us, I probably watch more. But I do it for "research," whereas, for him, it's solely for pleasure

 

[Jimmy9]

@SylviaDay @MonkeyButt Do they still masturbate?

 

[MonkeyButt]

@SylviaDay @MonkeyButt Do they still masturbate?

No, he has some psychological issues though. I won't go into much detail but it pretty much means he is totally disconnected from his body, and therefore does not feel those sexual needs. He is working on it.

 

[StacySins]

When I had a SO, yeah he did

 

[Kallie23]

Since DH is a traveler and is often gone for months at a time. I am most definitely positive he watches porn. We would watch it together a lot before kids. Now not so much together. But I do watch lots of porn, not like all day every day. But I do enjoy it. I only get upset when he HIDES that he is watching it. Dude just tell me that you want to rub one out instead of having sex.

 

[LittleMsBlack]

Extremely little if he does, I've asked him before if he did and his response was that he honestly couldn't remember the last time he did and that it would have only been once or twice when we had first started dating (we've been dating for almost 3 years now?) he has told me that he's gotten off to photos I've sent him though and I've caught him getting off to talking to me over the phone a couple times :S aha. Pretty sure I watch more porn then he does... I don't watch very much either though, both of us seem to have watched much more of it when we were younger. My boyfriend does also have OCD though so that may or may not play in to it but he seems pretty damn pre-occupied during the week with work, writing articles, stuff like that, so he usually just ends up bombarding me on the weekends when I see him lol.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

My first husband (before i was a camgirl) and I both watched porn separately and together.

My current partner watches porn but considers it a pretty private matter. We'll perv cams etc together, but if he's going to enjoy himself to porn we do it separately.

 

[Ms L]

He watches the porn we've made together when he's alone ;-) We watch other stuff together.

 

[Tristyn]

We both watch porn. Separately, mostly, but together every once in a while too.

 

[marvelanne]

Not when I'm around but he does. Between the two of us, I probably watch more. But I do it for "research," whereas, for him, it's solely for pleasure

I hear ya' lady. Porn is like my super fun homework. It starts as research, but I end up having to take care of myself too. My bf is definitely a perv He's super shy about his porn watching, which if anything bugs me the most. I think I tend to compare myself too much to a lot of the women and get kind of jealous

 

[GuiltyLily]

Porn is the between snacks for sex. I know my partners watch porn and so do I, sometimes just out of curiosity and other times for recreational fun. If I find out either of my partners like something I'm unfamiliar with I like to watch porn related to that to help fire me up into doing my proper research to accommodate theor desires. Porn is a good staple in our relationship from my standpoint.

 

[Jessi]

I really enjoy watching porn with a significant other. Stuffs inspiring, yo.