It can definitely make holding my usual conversations difficult. Some people won't say anything because they don't want to "interrupt the wall", and that leaves me just sorta standing there/sitting there/doing whatever without any interaction other than the jingle of tokens as a soundtrack.Evvie said:A member who wants to spend a few minutes flooding the chat with tiny tips may also be disrupting chat with potential big tippers or making it difficult for the model to entertain or be engaging. Many members complain about models being "too happy", and when I was on MFC, I found it very stressful to decide whether to act excited at the 20th 1 token tip, or to not act (and be labeled ungrateful or a bitch).
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In the end, dudes can spend their money however they want, but erasing the chatroom with an endless stream of nickels can be just as irritating and disruptive as it can be fun and enjoyable.
Then of course there's that part of my inner dialogue that is saying "This guy has 20 tokens but is giving them 1 at a time to be dramatic... a little attention whorey, aye?" And the worst part is that it's usually really sweet people doing this, but I can't help but think they're trying to get attention.VeronicaChaos said:Obviously all tips are good, but it's almost like, "OK, I have 50 tokens...how can I get THE most attention out of them as possible?"
And there's been a few times that in the midst of a tiny tip token wall that I miss a big one because the noise and the yellow get so overwhelming. It feels terrible to miss someone's extremely generous 1000 tip in the middle of so-and-so's wall of 15 1-token tips. Because while I appreciate the 15 tokens, clearly the person who just dropped a chunk like that deserves recognition, and if that opportunity is missed, I feel terrible.JoleneBrody said:I say time and place are everything.
IMO, 1 tok yellow walls should be avoided if there is a current countdown. The goal of a countdown should always be to reach that goal as quickly as possible, and a yellow wall of 1 token tips can not only disrupt the flow and chat in a room but also give the false idea that the goal is actually going anywhere and likely stop others from tipping in the process. This is especially detrimental if the countdown is already dragging longer than normal, because a wall of 1 token will take up a lot of time with very little fruit.
ComicOzzie said:I am so proud that nobody is this thread has claimed that one-token tips hurt your camscore.
emptiedglass said:ComicOzzie said:I am so proud that nobody is this thread has claimed that one-token tips hurt your camscore.
I guess they don't directly affect it, but perhaps if a stream of them has deterred someone from making a bigger one...
SerenaMoon said::sarcasm:
But every time you tip 1 token an angel dies, I read it in a book somewhere
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I_Am_Iris said:OH NOES!!! I feel terrible! I like to tip-raid other models' rooms with my regulars sometimes, and I actually encourage them to do one-token walls so that EVERYONE can participate. Granted, a raid usually only lasts 5 minutes or less, and the models always laugh and blush and seem to really enjoy it... but now I'm wondering if I'm just making them feel obligated to put up with it?!?! Oh, the inner turmoil!!! :character-bowser: :character-mario:
See, I think 50 tokens is a nice tip. It lowers the value of it on a generosity level if a person doles it out in 1's, though.GingerAnn said:I agree with all the ladies. In the right context it's fun but mostly it's annoying.
"Let me give you a measly 50 tokens but make sure it takes forever and dominates the whole room so all the attention is on me."
No, sir. Fuck off. Better things to do than glorify your shit tips for several minutes.
In regards to this post and ones above, I think there is a huge difference between certain exciting and funtimes 1 token tip walls (like room raids), and a member attempting to drag out his tokens for as long as possible to capitalize on attention.AmberCutie said:See, I think 50 tokens is a nice tip. It lowers the value of it on a generosity level if a person doles it out in 1's, though.GingerAnn said:I agree with all the ladies. In the right context it's fun but mostly it's annoying.
"Let me give you a measly 50 tokens but make sure it takes forever and dominates the whole room so all the attention is on me."
No, sir. Fuck off. Better things to do than glorify your shit tips for several minutes.
Send them a link to this thread. :mrgreen:HollieCakes said:So what to do about regulars who consistently do this? I feel like actually saying something might upset them/make me seem ungrateful but it sure gets awkward sitting there laughing and trying to carry out a conversation and wait until its over to thank them so they might hopefully get the hint and just tip in a less attention whoreish style next time. Not that all tokens aren't equal and I don't appreciate them all, it's also a pain in the bum for the counter guy if you have someone helping you.
Brad said:I personally would never tip only 1 token (MFC user now and past XHam user) unless I was trying to get to a certain countdown number like 69 or something like that and even then I would have to know the model pretty well to do that.
GingerAnn said:I agree with all the ladies. In the right context it's fun but mostly it's annoying.
"Let me give you a measly 50 tokens but make sure it takes forever and dominates the whole room so all the attention is on me."
No, sir. Fuck off. Better things to do than glorify your shit tips for several minutes.
LilyEvans said:The only time I get really salty about one token tips is when someone makes a request like "Show me ur pussy bb?" and I say they should tip for requests, and they tip one token. :angry4: That's just rude!
I could not agree more one person doing a super long one token wall is a waste of everyone's time.GingerAnn said:I_Am_Iris said:OH NOES!!! I feel terrible! I like to tip-raid other models' rooms with my regulars sometimes, and I actually encourage them to do one-token walls so that EVERYONE can participate. Granted, a raid usually only lasts 5 minutes or less, and the models always laugh and blush and seem to really enjoy it... but now I'm wondering if I'm just making them feel obligated to put up with it?!?! Oh, the inner turmoil!!! :character-bowser: :character-mario:
THAT'S DIFFERENT!
I have been tip raided by models and their guys and usually it's so sudden and exciting, it's all new people tipping and you find out what is happening and feel really really flattered. Usually a lot of guys are helping and some 5s and 10s are thrown in too. All good!
I suppose in general, tip walls of small tips are okay if a lot of guys are helping but if one dude is stretching out his tokens 1 by 1 it's ridiculous.
mynameisbob84 said:GingerAnn said:I agree with all the ladies. In the right context it's fun but mostly it's annoying.
"Let me give you a measly 50 tokens but make sure it takes forever and dominates the whole room so all the attention is on me."
No, sir. Fuck off. Better things to do than glorify your shit tips for several minutes.
I have no idea what you earn and for you, a 50 token tip might feel "measly" or "shit" - you might be used to much bigger tips, I don't know - but a 50 token tip is still $5 (to the member). That's more than some people in the world earn in an hour, and it's still $5 that someone could have chosen to spend elsewhere, ya know? Maybe I'm being naive but annoying one-token-at-a-time distribution aside, I'd still think of a 50 token tip as generous, and not "measly" or "shit". :twocents-02cents:
Yeah, that's exactly why models need to be specific in their room topics about how much they require per flash/request. If a model simply says "Tip for your request," she's probably gonna get a lot of 5-token tips with requests to "finger ass, bb"..."dance for me, bb"..."howl at the moon for me, bb." Same thing with Streamate...if you don't specify in your topic that you want 5 Gold per flash, you're gonna have people tipping you 1 Gold (the minimum) to see boobs.
LilyEvans said:mynameisbob84 said:GingerAnn said:I agree with all the ladies. In the right context it's fun but mostly it's annoying.
"Let me give you a measly 50 tokens but make sure it takes forever and dominates the whole room so all the attention is on me."
No, sir. Fuck off. Better things to do than glorify your shit tips for several minutes.
I have no idea what you earn and for you, a 50 token tip might feel "measly" or "shit" - you might be used to much bigger tips, I don't know - but a 50 token tip is still $5 (to the member). That's more than some people in the world earn in an hour, and it's still $5 that someone could have chosen to spend elsewhere, ya know? Maybe I'm being naive but annoying one-token-at-a-time distribution aside, I'd still think of a 50 token tip as generous, and not "measly" or "shit". :twocents-02cents:
In her defense, it sounds to me like the "shit tips" part refers to the one-token-at-a-time tips, not the 50 tokens total. And 50 tokens might not be a measly tip but when it's stretched out like that it's almost definitely used to gain more attention than it's "worth"-- it takes several minutes of thanking and pausing conversation/flow of the room to give attention to the tipper. It's kind of like if you're at a strip club and someone gives you five dollars-- hey cool, five dollars! Thanks! But if that guy wants to be like, "Hey baby I got something for you!" And he starts stacking dimes on stage, one by one, counting them out as he goes. And you can't walk away or look bored, because that's rude and he IS tipping you, which is nice. But everyone else starts watching him stack dimes instead of watching you and it really throws off the hustle and flow of your whole thing. Measly is relative.