sorry for the dp, i meant to hit save on my edit, but wandered away from my desktop before i could.here is a long list of potential conversation starters that maybe helpful: https://parade.com/969981/parade/conversation-starters/
lol ditto i mean i only have adhd and add so yeah i get it my bf is asd tho hmu we can talk and try to help each other out!!!!arrgh i have asd adhd and so on i get bored so easy its annoying sometimes
arrgh i have asd adhd and so on i get bored so easy its annoying sometimes
neurodivergent married to another neurodivergent! understand the struggles with getting bored and losing attention! getting on medication/schedule/routine has helped keep me on task and cope.lol ditto i mean i only have adhd and add so yeah i get it my bf is asd tho hmu we can talk and try to help each other out!!!!
what can i do to keep myself from looking bored when i first get online thats my biggest issue is i get online and look bored so people jump in and out of my room but once i have people in the room to talk to its usually okay until everyone leaves and im bored again
I wonder if it’s possible to stream on a non adult with huge traffic like Tik Tok live and then log off when things start to heat up on the cam site. I see plenty of Onlyfans models on Tik Tok live trying to gain subs.sorry for the dp, i meant to hit save on my edit, but wandered away from my desktop before i could.
i like to ask them a question, then answer it myself. a lot of members are nervous to talk to you for whatever reason, so it's up to you to figure out the icebreaker. you can choose if your questions will lead into your show types, be flirty or mundane. you mentioned you don't have an issue once you get an audience.
im pretty sure you can get your account blocked if you link your adult content or blatantly advertising on sites like tik tok and instagram. i've seen models get their accounts taken down for zero mention and simply existing. if you are gonna post on those sites under your cam persona to gain traffic, you want to avoid any mention of adult sites/content. post wholesome shit and tasteful lewds. even then, it's not guaranteed your account will be safe.I wonder if it’s possible to stream on a non adult with huge traffic like Tik Tok live and then log off when things start to heat up on the cam site. I see plenty of Onlyfans models on Tik Tok live trying to gain subs.
thanks for these recommendations. sometimes i feel i look awkward when it's quiet and often to sing along to songs. conversing with myself i thought made me look silly, but feels validating to see it as a strategy here.i down a redbull before getting online so im "peppy." if im more bouncy and look excited, ive noticed more people are willing to engage. sometimes
start learning to converse with yourself. if no one is engaging back, try not to get too discouraged. show them what type of attention they are missing out on by not engaging with you. even if there is no one in your room, it may appear as if you are split streaming so most camsite regulars wouldn't be suspicious.
here is a long list of potential conversation starters that maybe helpful: https://parade.com/969981/parade/conversation-starters/
good ideas. Yeah In my case I have to get in a sexual mind-state before camming. of course it's Lil diff from a male perspective. Im working on getting better with scheduling. U really have to treat this like a jobneurodivergent married to another neurodivergent! understand the struggles with getting bored and losing attention! getting on medication/schedule/routine has helped keep me on task and cope.
recommend setting a camming schedule that way it will help keep your brain focused on that set time. remove any distractions from your cam space. get your phone out of eyesight, and reach. there are website blockers you can use. i use stayfocusd for chrome.
I used to do this kind of thing. In my case, I used Periscope (RIP) or Bigo. Linking to adult content isn't a problem on Twitter, so I didn't have an issue as I never actually showed anything (against the rules on Periscope itself). It was really great for sharing affiliate links to wherever I was camming at the time, because many would sign up in order to keep watching. I'm not sure what the best platform would be these days, but it was and probably still would be a good way to start your room with a larger audience. Getting people to join the audience on the first site is obviously still a problem, but you don't have to worry about camscore or placement dropping while you do it, and viewers are already engaged once you switch over!I wonder if it’s possible to stream on a non adult with huge traffic like Tik Tok live and then log off when things start to heat up on the cam site. I see plenty of Onlyfans models on Tik Tok live trying to gain subs.