Banned because a guy asked for pp

[Toparbbb]

I’ve been on CB for almost a year now, and recently I was banned. Someone had asked me for my PP, and I gave them a wrong email, not to deceive, but just so they’d stop asking and wouldn’t be able to send anything. I think CB might have misunderstood and took it as a violation.
I’m on the spectrum, and CB was one of the few places where I genuinely felt good, where I could express myself, feel seen, and appreciated. Losing that has really affected me. I’ve tried reaching out to support several times, but I haven’t received any replies.
Please, if anyone can help or guide me, I’d be so grateful. My username was @Toparbbb. I never meant to break any rule I just didn’t know how else to handle the situation.

 

[punker barbie]

I’ve been on CB for almost a year now, and recently I was banned. Someone had asked me for my PP, and I gave them a wrong email, not to deceive, but just so they’d stop asking and wouldn’t be able to send anything. I think CB might have misunderstood and took it as a violation.
I’m on the spectrum, and CB was one of the few places where I genuinely felt good, where I could express myself, feel seen, and appreciated. Losing that has really affected me. I’ve tried reaching out to support several times, but I haven’t received any replies.
Please, if anyone can help or guide me, I’d be so grateful. My username was @Toparbbb. I never meant to break any rule I just didn’t know how else to handle the situation.

Support has confirmed that they have contacted you regarding this issue in ticket #24348544 If you need additional assistance, please contact support@chaturbate.com

 

[Toparbbb]

Support has confirmed that they have contacted you regarding this issue in ticket #24348544 If you need additional assistance, please contact support@chaturbate.com

I just wanted to thank you again from the bottom of my heart for helping me get my account (@Toparbbb) back last time. It truly meant a lot to me.





Unfortunately, I’ve just been banned again, and I believe it’s because of the same person who caused the issue before. I’ve tried reaching out to CB support, but I haven’t received any response.





If there’s any chance you can help once more or point me in the right direction, I’d be so grateful. I’m really doing my best to follow all the rules I just want to feel safe and be able to enjoy the space again without stress.

 

[Toparbbb]

Hey @punker barbie just wanted to thank you again from the bottom of my heart for helping me get my account (@Toparbbb) back last time. It truly meant a lot to me.
Unfortunately, I’ve just been banned again, and I believe it’s because of the same person who caused the issue before. I’ve tried reaching out to CB support, but I haven’t received any response.
If there’s any chance you can help once more or point me in the right direction, I’d be so grateful. I’m really doing my best to follow all the rules I just want to feel safe and be able to enjoy the space again without stress.

 

[cbhours]

the same person who caused the issue before

That would be you, you cant respond to a question for paypal with an email address obviously and it doesnt even make sense that you think they would stop asking once you provided them with an email.

 

[NotYou]

You gave a fake email "not to deceive"... Doesn't that contradict one another? I am confused. But you gave the email so it's your own fault, you could have quite easily muted or banned the person if they refused to respect you when you told them "stop asking".

 

[Toparbbb]

You gave a fake email "not to deceive"... Doesn't that contradict one another? I am confused. But you gave the email so it's your own fault, you could have quite easily muted or banned the person if they refused to respect you when you told them "stop asking".

I didn’t give a fake email with the intention to deceive or scam anyone. I was uncomfortable and overwhelmed by the constant pressure from this person. I reacted impulsively, just trying to make them stop, without thinking about the bigger consequences.
When you’re on the spectrum (as I am), situations like this can feel very intense and stressful. In that moment, I wasn’t trying to trick anyone, I was just trying to create space for myself. Muting or banning wasn’t the first instinct because my priority was to avoid conflict as fast as possible.
It wasn’t about malicious intent, it was about trying to protect my peace in the only way I could think of at that time.
I agree it wasn’t the best way to handle it, and I fully accept responsibility for the mistake. But intent matters. It wasn’t to harm, it was a panicked attempt to end unwanted pressure.

 

[NotYou]

I didn’t give a fake email with the intention to deceive or scam anyone. I was uncomfortable and overwhelmed by the constant pressure from this person. I reacted impulsively, just trying to make them stop, without thinking about the bigger consequences.
When you’re on the spectrum (as I am), situations like this can feel very intense and stressful. In that moment, I wasn’t trying to trick anyone, I was just trying to create space for myself. Muting or banning wasn’t the first instinct because my priority was to avoid conflict as fast as possible.
It wasn’t about malicious intent, it was about trying to protect my peace in the only way I could think of at that time.
I agree it wasn’t the best way to handle it, and I fully accept responsibility for the mistake. But intent matters. It wasn’t to harm, it was a panicked attempt to end unwanted pressure.

Unfortunately, that's not what it looks like at all, you need to see it from the website's perspective.
To them, it literally looks like you "caved in" and gave the PP email, you got caught and banned, and now you're making up a story. They see it as your responsibility to NOT give anything like a PP email and for you to ban them if they keep asking (and even report them maybe too). That's the unfortunate reality I'm afraid. I know trying to look at it from their perspective makes no difference, especially if you really did only do it to stop the person, but they have no way of knowing that.

 

[Toparbbb]

Unfortunately, that's not what it looks like at all, you need to see it from the website's perspective.
To them, it literally looks like you "caved in" and gave the PP email, you got caught and banned, and now you're making up a story. They see it as your responsibility to NOT give anything like a PP email and for you to ban them if they keep asking (and even report them maybe too). That's the unfortunate reality I'm afraid. I know trying to look at it from their perspective makes no difference, especially if you really did only do it to stop the person, but they have no way of knowing that.

I understand where you’re coming from, and I also understand the platform has to protect itself. I’m not denying that giving any email, even a wrong one, a mistake under the rules.
What I’m trying to explain is that my reaction was not calculated or malicious. It was impulsive under stress, due to how I personally process overwhelming situations.
You’re right that from a pure outside view, it might “look bad.” But that’s exactly why it’s important to advocate for nuance and context, especially when someone explains themselves in good faith.
Rules are rules, but platforms are made of people. When someone with different cognitive processing patterns (like being on the spectrum) interacts with a system designed for neurotypical behavior, sometimes misunderstanding happens, not deception.
I’m not excusing the action, I’m giving the real reason behind it.
And if a system doesn’t allow for explanations or second chances, that’s a problem too, not just for me but for many others who might react differently under pressure.