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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Agree but it wasn't always like this at all. The first six to eight months were actually fun, like two friends chatting about life, laughing a lot about things, and so on. It eroded over time though, because requests for money for "expenses" and other things began to creep in... Also, I...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    So an update...my last conversation with this model was a few days before New Years. I think it might wind up being the last conversation. I'm feeling like I've been working through it steadily (not completely out of the woods....but starting to feel a little more reality returning). Not to...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    You might be taking a little too much credit. I wasn't "freaked out" by you and I was already waking up about what was going on with this situation for awhile. My reaction to you at the start was more about wondering why you were initially claiming to know this particular model and even said...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    If you keep it open, I can try to provide an update in honor of the New Year. :happy:
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    This is a good point because it goes back to the reason (or question) I originally came here with: Is she a complete love scammer (no actual interest in a relationship; just fully lying about all of that, putting down a long track of breadcrumbs for money) versus is she actually looking for a...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I don't know if I fall in that category or not but I can say that posting this stuff here and getting feedback has been hugely helpful: 1) ventilation to people who are familiar with the cam modeling universe and 2) objective opinions about the situation from people who don't have an agenda
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    There's some truth to this, probably. But being realistic, this situation has gone on and evolved over the course of a year. Nothing has dramatically changed except that I've gotten some really good feedback here, from objective people on this site. So yes, while severing all ties instantly...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    She's definitely Russian and still there, so I'm not sure what other explanation there is other than perhaps her having lived in a somewhat larger city, having some college, and maybe the years of interaction with English-speakers had some effect. Not sure otherwise.
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    It didn't particularly offend me; it just wasn't accurate (as to the idea that I was knowingly playing along with some kind of fantasy role-modeling game from the start). A scam is different than an agreed upon role play. And both are different than someone seriously interested in romance /...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    So this is not more for purposes of the case study but I was looking through the vast Skype chats and I here I'm pasted a few more interactions that say a little about my "relationship" with this model. :happy: Four or five months ago, I made the mistake of mentioning some interactions with a...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    She is definitely a she, and probably 80% of our interactions were on video where such things are being written in chat. Sometimes in studio, sometimes not. There have been some long messages sent to me when we were not online, of course, so for those, she could have spent more time writing...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    She's 25, I know for sure. But it's funny, she does use a lot of ellipses in her messages. I hadn't thought about it, but I do it too and I'm wondering if she started to do that more because of me. (Maybe she thinks it's proper English since I do it? lol) But yeah, a lot of these messages she...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I wouldn't say that I can't but I'm being a bit avoidant of it. Even simple things like - do I say some sort of goodbye versus simply cutting off. I'm not really that lonely in day-to-day life but of course, with so much time having been spent talking to someone, sure, it will create a void for...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I think the flaw in this argument is that I was not conscious (for about the first 4 or 5 months) of the fact that she is (very likely) lying about her intentions. For one thing, it wasn't even romantic in nature for the first couple of months...this was something she gradually introduced to the...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Oh, I know. But I'm doing good in the sense that I haven't paid her for anything or sent any money in 2 weeks (an eternity to her) and her vow that I don't have to send her money and it's not all about money to her is starting to show cracks. Also, I'm more emotionally removed...it's like I...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    We've not interacted there. We have interacted on LiveJasmin, Chaturbate, Stripchat, and SecretFriends. CB was the main one at first; that's where this began. But overall, it's been 80% Stripchat when we were actually talking on a site. And there were references to things on Stripchat (and...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    It is but she did have some study of English in college and can speak and write a bit. She uses the translators in Skype and on the sites but will clean up the translations. Ironically, one of her requests of me early on (which I did donate to) was for a subscription to a particular app for...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    No, I have not. I admit, it's crossed my mind a few times - in part because I wonder if there are other members involved in this exact same situation with her right now. (Or there will be in the future). But I haven't been able to get myself to do it...I'm not sure why. Maybe part of me feels...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    She did ask about me and show interest in my life at times but not nearly as much as a person would who is talking about building a future with someone. In fact, I used to comment to her that it seemed odd that she so infrequently wanted to get in depth about me, yet she was proclaiming us to be...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Those are snippets from messages she sent me over time. There are many more; I only included some examples. There are also some messages that are very romantic in nature; those were more from the earlier stages. The interesting thing is that over time, the sweet and romantic messages became...
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