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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    You saw snippets from the very last couple of interactions after an entire year of conversations that were each sometimes 2-3 hours duration. By that point, I was "over" multiple aspects of the situation... I won't make this thread any crazier but I could post long transcripts that look like...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Not only did she express it first, but it was after we had been communicating for about 3-4 weeks. And she later said (which I put somewhere in this thread) that she knew within 1.5 months that I was someone of real significant to her in a romantic way. This is part of the reason why I was...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    A comment: As to whatever issues I might have that led me to go down a long, dysfunctional path with this model: JohnOfC aka Matsjka aka (Insert Next Alias) may be a real nutcase. This is a guy who in the same thread lectured me on how irrational I was being, yet also told us about the...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I won't argue with this. But I needed to stop about three months into the situation...that's the real truth. A week more or less now, to me, isn't all that significant. But the point is understood.
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I don't totally agree. To be honest, I've enjoyed refusing to buy stuff for her. And kind of started to get a kick out of her escalating insults. :happy:
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    To be honest, in those last couple of interactions, I've had way more emotional distance from this -- there's been some sarcasm in my responses. I could have been rude or just cut it off, but whatever...it was what it was. In some ways, I feel even a little sorry for this woman. If this is all...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Lol..... I've actually become a lot closer to that particular woman over time.... This model, even with her personality pathology, is very skilled at reading men (I think) and she has picked up on that...hence all the digs she started throwing out there.
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    So in the interest of an update: I've been busy...work and other aspects of life. In a way, this should be viewed as a good thing: I don't have time or inclination to be constantly thinking about this model anymore (or the thread). But since others have expressed interest in why I kept up...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Me too. I'll admit that writing up messages to send to sites to explain the situation is not fun; it's awkward to say the least and doubt creeps in (do it or drop it). As several people warned, as long as even one channel remains open, there's opportunity for contact. I admit that I backslid...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    No, I haven't yet deleted/blocked every access. I wrote up something to convey to the sites and began to pull some material (screenshots, etc.) together for that purpose. Then real life intruded, so this kind of fell into the background temporarily. The thread is confusing because there were...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Maybe you can PM me. The model I've been discussing does paint and draw (as a hobby - and fairly talented IMO) but I don't think she defines herself as an artist and that's not what would come to mind first in my view, either. So you are probably dealing with a different model...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    It did occur to me that by reporting all of this activity, I'm basically also reporting that I went along with (and even encouraged) some of it. I mean, but that's kind of the nature of a "love con" as I now understand it. In any case, yeah, I recognize that I could wind up being banned or...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Yes, except for: 1) Quite extensive (and insistent) discussions in the private chats of a couple of sites about meeting in person, traveling, how she wants a future together, how this is NOT a game to her, etc. 2) Talking about setting up an account and then sending the actual account numbers...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Maybe I don't know what others mean when they are using the term "revenge." The only concept that resonates with me relates to reporting the situation to the sites, which others have suggested. I'm not really sure what else someone would conceivably do after such a situation (in the "revenge"...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    It wasn't like that until the last few months. See, that's the con. The first 8 or 9 months was a lot of fun, talking about life - everything from day to day stuff to bigger topics. Sending pictures of places we traveled. Along with joking and laughing. And it became kind of a mutual admiration...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    I do agree...it's ultimately all been a waste of time and that includes now, even though it's way less time than before. As far as revenge, I'll be honest - I go back and forth. When I read some of her messages, it's easy to get angry and think, "What a pathological liar!" and hope for bad...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    1) Interest in human behavior (20%), 2) Continuing to work through the situation in my mind while I get ready to make reports to the sites. (80%). There hasn't been any additional communication since the argumentative interaction several days before the New Year. Except for a brief message...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    This thread has done me some good, I can say that for sure. I feel better than I have in awhile. I've actually not gone this long in communicating with her in a year and I've written something to send to the sites to report what happened. I think this is all bothering me a lot less now because...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    Here's what I'm wondering. Call me curious George but... The now departed JohnOfC originally showed up to this thread to give the not unsurprising message that I was being scammed and it was all in line with typical Russian studio tactics. But then he took a leap way beyond, claiming that he...