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    Scammed?

    I'm nearly sure that's not the same manual I saw. Although the attachment is gone so you can only see what's posted. I remember the cover had the name of the company, and the part that stood out was a section with a lot of examples of specific phrases or sentences suggested, as well as...
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    Scammed?

    I'm almost positive that I came across it on a site devoted to cam modeling. No recall of the name of the forum but it seemed more for customers. (Though models also posted there, because there were threads with models discussing experiences or advice on specific studios). It's been a couple of...
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    Scammed?

    It sounds like you learned the truth early on, you just didn't want to believe it. Like I said, I ignored a lot of question marks and red flags, too. It's par for the course with people who are involved in romance scams. They always later remember doubts they had, but ignored. Outright...
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    Scammed?

    I've mainly talked about a long experience that I had. Whether you don't like hearing my "take" on the things I experienced or you don't like the opinions I formed from that, and from subsequent discussions with others, including many models, I really don't care. I didn't see any specific...
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    Scammed?

    I personally have said many times here that I don't think these situations come up very often. But I'm going to assume that everyone could agree: Unless there's some kind of role play that's been requested, if a model is persistently saying things to a member about wanting to take a trips...
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    Scammed?

    That's just mentally ill dudes or severely screwed up personalities. But how common is that? Surely no one (other than them!) is going to give any credence to it if they claim they were "scammed" or misled.
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    Scammed?

    To get to a point that a member thinks he might want to marry a cammer, the member has to think he really knows the cammer. I think that's where the delusion comes in, because it's rare for the cammer to share her true self. The member might share his true feelings and tell everything about his...
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    Scammed?

    I cut off all contact but it took longer than it should have. If I had trusted my instincts, I would have cut off the contact far sooner. If I had read other similar stories, it might have helped. But because I had emotions tied up in the situation, and she was so insistent, it took longer...
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    Scammed?

    I could see where there would be guys trying to use financial leverage with models from certain parts of the world, which might not work with models in other places. In my case, I encountered the model by chance, because there was almost no one in her room and she was sitting there looking sad...
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    Scammed?

    I'm saying this while laughing about it, but the model I was interacting with (a situation several years ago) argued with me about this topic. I asked the same thing. Her answer was that I didn't understand Slavic culture. She said for Russian women, a big part of the way love is shown by a man...
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    Scammed?

    I think this is true in many circumstances. I think often it's men trying to exploit a power and money differential. I always admit to my own stupidity in what happened with me. I began chatting with a model without any romantic notions but then I started to get "love bombed" by her after a...
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    Scammed?

    Sounds like there's some level of denial about the fact that there are cam models out there who engage in true love scams. I don't know if it's many, out of so many thousands of models. But they're out there for sure. Either that or: If a customer falls for a model who is running a long "con"...
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    Scammed?

    I think that's great advice to men who visit cam sites. But I would also say, to the small percentage of cam girls who do this: Stop engaging in romance scams; meaning, don't feign romantic interest in the client; don't use manipulation, false promises about desire for a real world...
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    Scammed?

    I think your mistake (not criticizing, I did the same or worse!) was to assume or to begin believing that she was doing anything (including just giving you attention) for some reason other than money. But maybe she said that, or implied it. That's what I think is the line between the normal...
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    Scammed?

    Not sure what cam site this started on, but unless it's one that allows sharing other social media, seems daring of her to quickly be offering to do privates offsite and take payments offsite. I'm assuming that she made these offers to you on some other platform. Even a scamming model knows to...
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    Scammed?

    Gone awhile but came across you post and for a second, I thought it was the same model I knew and posted about on this site a long time ago. The part that got me was her demand that you apologize by paying her. The model I was "involved" with used to say almost the exact words you wrote. She...
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    Know better, still fell in love

    This seems to be a strange issue with a contingent of men. Sort of an aggressive, delusional thing where the woman isn't sending any hint of wanting the guy, yet the guy is somehow forming the conclusion that she does. Or even worse, completely blind to the "get the fuck away" signals. I'm not...
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    Know better, still fell in love

    I apologize for assuming. I said it sounds like she is taking advantage, based solely on the fact that his comments (with not other context) implied it. I admit, I wasn't thinking about the fact that he could be completely distorting the situation. This is probably true. My situation taught...
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    Know better, still fell in love

    It sounds like she didn't love you and was trying to take advantage of you. It's good that you are walking away (hopefully without too much of a hit from her "big payday"). Loving someone does not make them deserve you. I put myself through a nightmare with one of these situations and...
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    A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

    So you were almost banned by the particular cam site? I'm assuming that the studio can only take action against the model. It sounds like I'll be "self-confessing" to a lot in this situation. It takes two to tango. She set up a private account and sent me numbers; I was sending money to it. She...
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