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  1. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    I would hope there is something like this, so that an account with multiple reports is somehow flagged for manual human review. But in my years of experience, it is often like you say, the same users harassing performers day after day. Sometimes I wonder how much of it comes down to the fact...
  2. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Again, you confuse me because we haven't said you are wrong, or that you personally can't reach out to members (be tactful, people are sensitive to this kind of conversation even when they are close to someone, moreso when it is a stranger). It seems like you don't like reading my replies...
  3. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Well we can block/ban members from our chats after the undesirable behavior takes place, and we can report them to the platforms. Sometimes they take action, sometimes they don't. Having mental health concerns doesn't equate to misbehaving. We don't know someone is going to be a weirdo until...
  4. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    I am not offended. I don't feel that anything is required of me, obviously. Just confused by what conversation you are trying to have. In the original post, you asked if there is a correlation between cam site members and mental health issues. So I answered that, as well as your follow-up...
  5. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Like most things that people find ways to misuse and abuse, there are regulations regarding what content can be produced/streamed, how it is produced, who can produce/appear in/sell it, where it can be advertised/what specific terminology can be used to do so, and who can buy/view it. What more...
  6. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Anxiety part 2 - the balance between sexiness and genuine personality

    I thought what you had to say was really interesting to read, nothing to feel embarrassed about! Finding the balance is something I think we can all relate to working at. It is rare that someone shows up to their first ever performance, knowing just how to charm the crowd and work the stage...
  7. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    The problem is not the industry, the problem is that a small subset of people who consume the material produced in the industry happen to have outside issues that they are not addressing. This is not even specific to our industry. Anything that can be misused or abused, people will find a way to...
  8. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Right, I do not necessarily mean just you specifically, but anyone who might be using cam sites in this way. But the answer is the same, cam sites as a bandaid for deeper issues isn't going to lead to the best outcomes. Just responding to the specific example you gave. So if the problem is...
  9. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Well sure, people with mental health issues often look for different means of escapism. Cam sites can definitely offer that. But then the specific issue you bring up is that you are perhaps looking for a social interaction need to be met. And if cam sites are your go-to for that need, you are...
  10. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Yeah I wanted to make sure I knew which you were speaking of before answering, because my response for each would be very different. Concerning members, I think it's something that each person who visits the sites needs to address on their own. If they have an issue, it is not that the cam site...
  11. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Can someone out there please explain to me what I am doing wrong?

    I see you mentioned not having consistency, and that can definitely put a damper on your ability to build a fanbase. But I understand why the comments you've received would make that really challenging. No one should show up to work daily and have to expect that some asshole is going to come...
  12. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Anxiety part 2 - the balance between sexiness and genuine personality

    So true. And even if saying yes to everything was more profitable in the moment, in the end it will shorten your time in the industry. So is it really more profitable overall? No way! Set those boundaries as soon as you feel the need! You can change things as you see fit whenever you want. I...
  13. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Camsites, modeling and mental health

    Are you talking about members, or performers?
  14. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Stripchat Purposely Banning On Sundays

    Yes, other sites have definitely been this shady. Sorry for misreading the first part of your post. SC seems really above board with their actions, and it is really unusual to see accusations against them. They are so active with trying to get first-hand input from performers here. But OP, in...
  15. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    I'm trying to find out some information before registering on Streamate

    As far as I know, your profile location options will be based on the origin place of your ID used to register (or primary language spoken??? I really don't know, sorry). Then you are given priority placement when viewed by members in nearby locations/same language speaking countries, yes. But...
  16. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Who is this camgirl? Can you Identify this girl? Threads...

    So are you done stalking her now? Did this change anything?
  17. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    I'm trying to find out some information before registering on Streamate

    In my experience on SM, doing more in free chat will not make more money. That is not how the site culture is, and I really enjoy that about it. I also enjoy making my earnings from one-on-one interactions, rather than entertaining a whole crowd: I personally don't have that type of energy! It...
  18. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Got scammed by a model. Help

    I think saying "can you repeat, I don't understand" would be enough to let the viewer know that they need to restate in a new way.
  19. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    How does someone find my real name?

    Even then, this is not a bulletproof solution, your information can be discovered. Be very careful OP, any gifting platform for the most part is not built with our security needs in mind and so does not operate under the assumption that we need our privacy protected. I only accept GCs at this...
  20. THE MOLLIE MARIE

    Curious about past experiences with a host

    Well, you are. Stop paying her, spend that money on a therapist, and tell them what you told us in this post. These are not healthy thoughts or actions. Especially the part about obsessively trying to find matches to her bed/bathroom.