Does it ever bother you that a girl your looking at is in a relationship or married? It doesn't to me except when irl i wanna take her home with me but that's a girl I see in real lifelol. Share your opinions please!
So I won't lose customers if I put married on my model status?Jupiter551 said:Doesn't bother me one way or the other.
I have no statistics but I suspect a lot of the euro models aren't single but most of them list themselves as that, and claim they are if asked :dontknow: I guess they think it's what guys want to hear, in some cases I guess they do.
I saw a random guy ask Amber if she was wearing a wedding ring, she said she was, then he went off at her and she banned him lol.
My guess is, it only bothers the idiots who ask what city you're in thinking they are going to hook-up if you're close enough.
morment said:I don't see why it should matter, the model's looks/personalities are what determine how much fun you have in her room, not whether she's in a relationship or not.
The thing you have to ask yourself is if you'd be comfortable getting whatever extra tokens you'd get by claiming to be single knowing that you'd be doing so under false pretenses.sxycherrypie said:I just heard it is a big deal for alot of men on mfc and i am still trying to find my niche Im a lil low on customers as it is and I dont want to scare more off lol.
sxycherrypie said:So I won't lose customers if I put married on my model status?
SweepTheLeg said:Majority of the girls rooms I go into are married or are at least in a relationship and my reaction has always been who gives a flying shit? This is high school pop band bull shit pretend your single because you're not getting paid based on your talent and ability but also the idea that the person giving you money has a chance at pursuing a relationship later on and in my view that is fucking fucked up if you telling them you're married has an effect on them wanting to spend any time or money on you and you're better off with out them.
It is even more fucked up if any one of them spends any time giving you shit that some how you being a cam girl is cheating on them because other guys are watching you be sexy, do sexy things, along with buying you gifts, and doing whatever he can to get close to you to be a friend more than just another guy in the room.
Do whatever you want that makes you comfortable and feel that'll get you more money, but my personal opinion is to pretend you're single for a few extra dollars and stringing guys along that they could be a future boyfriend instead of telling them up front who you are and what you're all about is some weak shit in my book.
Oh no I do not think I am cheating at all my husband knows about my camming and he is the one who got me started actually =D. All it is is the fear of not making as much money is all.Nordling said:For the nosy members who think it's any of their business, and in turn, think that camming is some kind of cheating, ask them if when conventional actors have love scenes in movies with people not their spouses, "do you think they're cheating too?"
Then ban them forever.
That's the reaction I got since I kept my marriage a secret for the first 7 or so months that I was on MFC.SweepTheLeg said:Then that portion of my view is for other models who do and have strung people along to get more money out of them. Do whatever you're comfortable with, I just think that by telling them you're single now and then in the future telling everyone that you were and are married some regulars may have the "wait, what?" reaction.
Hmmm good point..SweepTheLeg said:Then that portion of my view is for other models who do and have strung people along to get more money out of them. Do whatever you're comfortable with, I just think that by telling them you're single now and then in the future telling everyone that you were and are married some regulars may have the "wait, what?" reaction.
If you feel that it's worth telling them single to get a few extra bucks go for it, as Bawsky said "An emotionally stable, rational male won't give a shit about the marital status of a model, but then again, that's not who the most profitable customers are, are they?"
Did you lose customers though or are you still making nice money?AmberCutie said:That's the reaction I got since I kept my marriage a secret for the first 7 or so months that I was on MFC.SweepTheLeg said:Then that portion of my view is for other models who do and have strung people along to get more money out of them. Do whatever you're comfortable with, I just think that by telling them you're single now and then in the future telling everyone that you were and are married some regulars may have the "wait, what?" reaction.
I honestly don't give a shit if I lost members over it. If people weren't willing to accept it, they could kick rocks. And I don't want to take money from people who "don't like that a model is married" because I don't agree with their thoughts on it and think they're probably not in the right emotional/mental place to be on a cam site if that's important to them.sxycherrypie said:Did you lose customers though or are you still making nice money?AmberCutie said:That's the reaction I got since I kept my marriage a secret for the first 7 or so months that I was on MFC.SweepTheLeg said:Then that portion of my view is for other models who do and have strung people along to get more money out of them. Do whatever you're comfortable with, I just think that by telling them you're single now and then in the future telling everyone that you were and are married some regulars may have the "wait, what?" reaction.
Jupiter551 said:Yeah also I think, the kind of needy guys that would have a tantrum to find out you're married/involved would be exactly the kind of guys to completely flip out if they subsequently found out you'd lied about it in the first place.
And it's easy to slip up and refer to your bf/husband, or they could even just google you and find this thread.
Bottom line: It's NONE of their business - so decline to put anything or put whatever you want, but my recommendation is when asked directly, be more or less honest.
One of the top MFC models (like multiple miss mfc winner) had said she was single for like a couple years, and then suddenly a wedding video of her and her husband did the rounds on the internet, some of her regulars got upset, and anyone who mentioned it or asked if she was married got immediately banned lol. It's a stupid thing to care about (being married or not), from both sides.
I agree I feel so much more comfortable now thanks to your posts. I feel like a weight has been lifted I mean I am pretty honest and I HATE lying I even flinch when I tell people I am single. I have been so tempted to say he ass hole why the hell does it matter? This isn't a dating site I am here to make you cum and leave you happy for the night after a long boring hard day of work. But yea thank you =D.Paulie Walnuts said:I don't see why it would matter, unless you're some sort of internet sicko who thinks every cam girl he see's is "available" or "obtainable" and a husband or SO will get in their way.
Unless you are in front of me and you grab my dick with an evil grin, or give me the sign you're up for a chase, I assume you are unobtainable and unavailable.
Which would include by default every single woman on the interwebz with a cam.
:lol:
If the woman on your screen being married or involved bothers you, quite seriously, you need some professional help.